Fr: 8/16/08

[SirSlick]

State of Mind
I'm in a very happy mood lately. Everything is going well in my personal life and that reflects my state in the field.

After the meeting with my wings Watanabe calls me and wants to go out with me. I'm down and I met up with him at the club.

I was fearless the whole night. No form of AA at all, not even a drop. It felt good.

Goals of the Night
1. Open 10 sets / night (two mixed set, two 4+ set)
2. Seafood girl opener
3. Field test "Universal Chode" routine.
4. Practise theREDstack "Grounding #1", "Sexual Frame #1", and "DHV #1".

Progress of My Goal
1. DONE
2. DONE
3. NO
4. I ran it twice that night, not enough to really internalize it completely so I can have good delivery. I will need to practise this more.

I still need to field test my new routine. Remind me

Break down
Hustler girl
Before we were at the club, we were waiting at an elevator. Then this Hustler girl, I think she might have been a gogo dancer, walks by and for a moment everyone freezes. I break the bubble and start talking:

SS: Do you like horses?
HB: Eurhm...yeah I guess
SS: Ok check this out. When I was in 6th grade, this girl would always bring seafood to school in a paper brown bag...and eurhm....she would ride horses on the playground.

Obviously I mixed up the horse girl and seafood girl opener. Too funny. The elevator doors open and we all go in. Dee and Maui can't stop laughing and it creates some fun tension between me and the girl. It cranked us all up!

-What was good?
I opened the girl. I didn't freeze and at least started a conversation. No AA.

-What was bad?
Messed up the delivery and didn't continue talking to her in the elevator.

-Where did I lose the set?
The punchline wasn't good so no hooking.

-How could I have taken it further?
I should kept talking to her and just go direct to get the number.

Seated 2set
At the club I sent in Watanabe, who I met the first time, into a seated 2set far in the corner. For such an approach, you have to go direct. 30 seconds later I'm going in and wing him. We both have our girls isolated and my girl is actually cute. Nice. 20-25 minutes later I go for the e-mail and number. Stay another 5 minutes and ejected. For some reason I still felt it wasn't a super solid number. Plenty of comfort (no good logistics for pull), spur of attraction but weak attraction and qualification though.

-What was good?
Good winging, I made sure Watanabe would have enough time to do his thing.

-What was bad?
No sexual framing it all, moving the set to get full isolation, and limited kino.

-Where did I lose the set?
Probably somewhere after 15 minutes. I could no sexual tension and too much comfort building while having very little attraction.

-How could I have taken it further?
I should have gone more risky by telling her to come with me and dance or whatever to get full isolation.

Hottest girl
I approached the hottest girl in the club with an direct opener in front of her 4 friends. She loved it but then I started to mess up because everyone was waiting for me to leave (we were late). I love direct, especially when you look deep into the girl's eyes, pause your delivery, and project that sexual vibe. Money.

-What was good?
Opening was very strong and good. Good delivery of the direct line with pauses, hand on the shoulder, confident walk, low tonality, and deep eye contact. So much was going on before and during the opening.

-What was bad?
No form of continuation and I was on a real time constrain, so I didn't work it enough.

-Where did I lose the set?
When I was done with the opener and just looked at her deeply.

-How could I have taken it further?
Continue the conversation for just a little bit and then just go for the number.

Worst Sets of the Night
There were some blowouts on the dancefloor but that didn't affect me one bit. I had fun. Plenty of moving sets blew me out, no problem.

2set blondes
I opened this 2set of hot blondes and I ignored the obstacle. I could see she got bored while my target was entertained. Then this guy, who I vagelue know as a regular there, comes in and starts talking and hugging me. Basicly he blew me out and I lost the set. In the past, I would have hated that guy, but now I don't care. Proof my inner game has improved.

Sticking Points
I really like the seafood girl opener. It has many things built in and that's why I like Brad P's shocker openers. It still needs better delivery though, towards the end of the night it got better.

More attraction during mid game. I need to keep cycling attraction, I forget that a lot, so my sets are really flat as time progresses. Sometimes I pump it again but I don't do it enough.