Last comment on looks

[Fader]

I had no plans to go out last night but my co-workers dragged me out. I havent shaved in 4 days and I was wearing an ugly outfit. My co-workers go home and it is 9 pm in nyc on a thursday (the day before st p day no less) so I am like F this, if vegas taught me one thing it's I can sarge by myself.
I walk into this place and I'm like "where' s the coatchcheck?" The bouncer goes "we dont have one and I would watch your jacket people steal things around here." Great. Now I want you to picture this, I havent shaved in 4 days I look a mess and I am wearing this HUGE HUGE HUGE goosed down coat (I get cold easy). I fight to the bar, get a drink and start going into set. End result is I got the shot girls e-mail and this BANGIN columbians number after I told her the sad story.
I still believe looks count but now I say less then ever. I was this short small kid in a huge puffy jacket running tight game and walked out like a champ.
Tight game over looks any day

[Stallion]

Hahaha you must of shocked a few of the guys in there as well.
Confidence can be more attractive to women then looks so as long as you have Tight game like you said, you can still talk out a winner.
Good post to read man, something to link people to when their worryed about their looks.

[Fader]

Originally Posted by Stallion

Hahaha you must of shocked a few of the guys in there as well.
Confidence can be more attractive to women then looks so as long as you have Tight game like you said, you can still talk out a winner.
Good post to read man, something to link people to when their worryed about their looks.

I felt like a gigantic blue marshmellow. And heres the funny thing with the columbian my dhv was showing her "I get it". Her friends were my time constraint. I didnt even finsh the opener. I'll explain
"Hey I need a female opinion on something and I'll be quick before YOUR friends drag you away"
"Why would they do that?"
I look her dead in the eyes, pause, and tell her "because I havent had a chance to build rapport with them yet and they'll think I'm trying to game you"
She giggles and not even 10 seconds later her friends come to drag her away whispers her in her and she blows the girl off, I didnt even run the opener I just went into 1 quick a2 and then right into a3. I am making alot of progress on a3 recently it;'s weird becaue you can hear the pros talk about it but only field calibration will help you "get it". By it I mean how fast you can transition into screening her

[Onix]

Originally Posted by fad3r

I felt like a gigantic blue marshmellow. And heres the funny thing with the columbian my dhv was showing her "I get it". Her friends were my time constraint. I didnt even finsh the opener. I'll explain
"Hey I need a female opinion on something and I'll be quick before YOUR friends drag you away"
"Why would they do that?"
I look her dead in the eyes, pause, and tell her "because I havent had a chance to build rapport with them yet and they'll think I'm trying to game you"
She giggles and not even 10 seconds later her friends come to drag her away whispers her in her and she blows the girl off,

LOL nice...
i like that!

[Stallion]

Mate, thats a really interesting way of quickly gaming a girl.
It's great to see new ways of throwing FTC in on a set, was it something you just came up with or did you think of it before hand?
I'm going to steal that and try it tonight if you don't mind, lol.
P.S lob this in the best of.

[Fader]

Originally Posted by Onix

LOL nice...
i like that!

It's interesting because it just goes to show the opener doesnt matter it is just a veichle to start the conversation, immediately we transitioned into social dynamics > fluff > a3 screening

[Sheek]

Girls love talking about social dynamics, my god. If you do it RIGHT, that is. The first time I tried to talk social dynamics, I brought up the structure of the Mystery Method and started to explain it a bit... I basically said "Hey, I go to internet sites and read about how to get girls, and now I'm using it on you!!" Yeah, DLV.
You took the right approach when talking about it.

[Fader]

Originally Posted by Shake

Girls love talking about social dynamics, my god. If you do it RIGHT, that is. The first time I tried to talk social dynamics, I brought up the structure of the Mystery Method and started to explain it a bit... I basically said "Hey, I go to internet sites and read about how to get girls, and now I'm using it on you!!" Yeah, DLV.
You took the right approach when talking about it.

I use, I cant believe I am going to spill this here "Is attraction a choice?" as an opener all the time. The problem is shutting them up after that. That's a guaranteed thread you will have to cut, so if you're at the point in your game development where you're practicing your mutiple thread theory try throwing that in while engaging a group you will definitely haev to cut it because girls will talk about it for hours upon hours upon hours.

[S0LID]

Man, big respect, I still have a fear of sarging alone.

Originally Posted by fad3r

"Why would they do that?"

You do realise, that's a massive IOI?
I dont use mystery method (only some parts). From there I would have said awww your like the leader, that's really cute gimme a high 5! (hand holding)..........
S0LID

[Fader]

Originally Posted by S0LID

Man, big respect, I still have a fear of sarging alone.
You do realise, that's a massive IOI?
I dont use mystery method (only some parts). From there I would have said awww your like the leader, that's really cute gimme a high 5! (hand holding)..........
S0LID

That's an interesting analysis I actually worried saying your friends are going to drag you away was DLV (when I thought about it after) but I think because I come as very playful and flirty (after all I am wearing a super huge jacket, think end of ghostbusters just the guy being blue) it was ok. I mean if you look like a retard and you're still congruent and your subtext is on I guess it really doenst matter. Like this guy is approaching me looking like that there is def more to him then meets the eye