Qualifying is all about passing judgment on someone. Stripper names and animal noises don’t help you do that, so leave them out of it.
The problem is that you’re thinking Club Game. In
Day Game, you don’t have to compete with the distraction of lights, noise, music and booze. You're just a normal guy who’s having a conversation with her. Of course normal guys don't have the balls to do that unless they've had a couple of drinks and then they fuck it up. You, on the other hand, show unusually high value by talking to her stone cold sober, which makes her feel like she needs to show that she deserves your attention. Going cocky/funny here would just be weird, so be low-key instead.
A few weeks ago I was standing in a grocery checkout line after work. I saw a woman reading some trashy checkout-line magazine while she waited. She was well dressed, and looked well educated and professional. She read for a moment, then looked both ways like she didn’t want to get caught, then put the magazine back on the shelf. When she looked at me, it was clear that I’d seen everything. Her expression was so guilty that I laughed out loud, which made her laugh. As I laughed, I asked her, "Are you one of those people who feels guilty about reading magazines without paying for them?" She blushed and said, "No, I feel guilty about what I'm reading." I replied, “Well, what exactly are you reading?” She was totally busted, and I was in.
There I used one situational opener which was also a slight neg and a qualifier. I followed with another situational qualifier.
But you may not even need them. If you’re cool enough to just start talking to her, she’ll probably start to qualify herself without prompting if you just shut up and let her.
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