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Old 08-13-2008, 02:36 PM
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Default Fave stripper name good for day game?

Is asking a girl her favorite stripper name or to make a favorite animal noise good and interesting qualifiers for day game?

or should I stick to the usual "what do you do for a living?" or "Where are your hobbies?"
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Old 08-14-2008, 11:29 AM
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Neither. Just go situational like a normal human being. Day game is about being subtle.


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Old 08-14-2008, 04:09 PM
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Neither. Just go situational like a normal human being. Day game is about being subtle.


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Do you mean asking what would she do in a specific situation as a qualifier? or ask her about something that just happened in the area as a qualifier?

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Old 08-15-2008, 12:47 AM
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Qualifying is all about passing judgment on someone. Stripper names and animal noises don’t help you do that, so leave them out of it.

The problem is that you’re thinking Club Game. In Day Game, you don’t have to compete with the distraction of lights, noise, music and booze. You're just a normal guy who’s having a conversation with her. Of course normal guys don't have the balls to do that unless they've had a couple of drinks and then they fuck it up. You, on the other hand, show unusually high value by talking to her stone cold sober, which makes her feel like she needs to show that she deserves your attention. Going cocky/funny here would just be weird, so be low-key instead.

A few weeks ago I was standing in a grocery checkout line after work. I saw a woman reading some trashy checkout-line magazine while she waited. She was well dressed, and looked well educated and professional. She read for a moment, then looked both ways like she didn’t want to get caught, then put the magazine back on the shelf. When she looked at me, it was clear that I’d seen everything. Her expression was so guilty that I laughed out loud, which made her laugh. As I laughed, I asked her, "Are you one of those people who feels guilty about reading magazines without paying for them?" She blushed and said, "No, I feel guilty about what I'm reading." I replied, “Well, what exactly are you reading?” She was totally busted, and I was in.

There I used one situational opener which was also a slight neg and a qualifier. I followed with another situational qualifier.

But you may not even need them. If you’re cool enough to just start talking to her, she’ll probably start to qualify herself without prompting if you just shut up and let her.


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Old 08-21-2008, 06:41 PM
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Qualifying is all about passing judgment on someone. Stripper names and animal noises don’t help you do that, so leave them out of it.

The problem is that you’re thinking Club Game. In Day Game, you don’t have to compete with the distraction of lights, noise, music and booze. You're just a normal guy who’s having a conversation with her. Of course normal guys don't have the balls to do that unless they've had a couple of drinks and then they fuck it up. You, on the other hand, show unusually high value by talking to her stone cold sober, which makes her feel like she needs to show that she deserves your attention. Going cocky/funny here would just be weird, so be low-key instead.

A few weeks ago I was standing in a grocery checkout line after work. I saw a woman reading some trashy checkout-line magazine while she waited. She was well dressed, and looked well educated and professional. She read for a moment, then looked both ways like she didn’t want to get caught, then put the magazine back on the shelf. When she looked at me, it was clear that I’d seen everything. Her expression was so guilty that I laughed out loud, which made her laugh. As I laughed, I asked her, "Are you one of those people who feels guilty about reading magazines without paying for them?" She blushed and said, "No, I feel guilty about what I'm reading." I replied, “Well, what exactly are you reading?” She was totally busted, and I was in.

There I used one situational opener which was also a slight neg and a qualifier. I followed with another situational qualifier.

But you may not even need them. If you’re cool enough to just start talking to her, she’ll probably start to qualify herself without prompting if you just shut up and let her.


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Thanks man. All of that helped me out. Sometimes i do keep talking by saying my DHVs and forget to let her qualify herself.
Thanks again
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Old 08-23-2008, 03:08 PM
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No worries. Keep us posted.


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