The Attraction Forums


Go Back   The Attraction Forums > Community Forums > Context > Day Game


Sponsors

Reply
 
LinkBack Thread Tools Display Modes
  #1 (permalink)  
Old 08-02-2008, 12:18 AM
trackfire trackfire is offline  - Male
 
Join Date: Jul 2008
Location: New York,NY
Age: 21
Posts: 155
Default Some Openers to Try

As I mentioned in my last thread, here were a few openers that I've used that have worked VERY well. I'm not sure if they originate from anywhere else.

FIRST:

Me: "Excuse me...but, out of curiosity, can you cook?"
Woman: "Some things..." (I have not the slightest idea why women say this...)
Me: "Well; I've been having a problem deciding what I want to eat for dinner. I'm trying to eat healthy, but have no idea of what to eat. What do you think?"
Her: "What are you in the mood for?"
Me: "Surprise me "

She'll usually give a few suggestions. Easy enough to branch off to other conversations...

I did this on a VERY HOT Puerto Rican woman and another HOT Latina woman, to much success (though no closes on either situation). I kind of did this on a woman where the convo wasn't going so well, and it worked out really well.

SECOND:

Lots of women in New York tend to show the MEANEST faces...If you look at them, it looks like they've got something totally bugging them. So on one woman, I opened with this:

Me: "You look SO serious, like you're on a mission or something. Are you?"

Woman: Smiled and laughed a little bit. "No..."

----

In this case, she had sunglasses on, so I decided to play around a little bit.

Me: "Must be tough reading stuff with those shades. Can I try them?" (hands her my glasses...she handed me her shades)

Me: "So what do you think? Do they match me?"

Her: "Yeah..sort of!"

Me: "Do you think I look like Kanye West? Everyone says I do..." (seriously)

Her: Laughs a bit.."Yeah, kind of!"

Me: "I HATE you!! Everyone says that...and I never get it! I don't want to look like a guy with no talent!"

Then we talked about our jobs. She asked me what I did, to which I responded "Drug dealer." (I sort of am, but it's of the good kind. I work in pharmaceuticals )

No close; she had to get out at station stop.

Feedback?
__________________
TRAINING STATUS: It's raining...
since: late October 2008
E: ~10, N: 10 or 11.
GOAL: Girlfriend.
Reply With Quote

  #2 (permalink)  
Old 08-04-2008, 07:07 PM
young dubs's Avatar
young dubs young dubs is offline  - Male
 
Join Date: Jun 2008
Age: 22
Posts: 216
Default

I like the approaches and the openers... do you attempt to close? generally in day game you should come off more direct, because time is usually an issue, you should try to insta-date/number close sooner than later, spark attraction, banter, lil qualifyin and comfort and then "you know you're such an interesting person, I gotta go but give me your number and I'll call you later and continue talkin about ____ "

nice job tho bro, keep it up!


- Dubs
__________________
They don't make em like me no more.... matter fact, they never made like me before...


Trust yourself, and you'll know how to live
Warnings: 1  |   Reply With Quote
  #3 (permalink)  
Old 08-04-2008, 07:33 PM
trackfire trackfire is offline  - Male
 
Join Date: Jul 2008
Location: New York,NY
Age: 21
Posts: 155
Default

I haven't tried direct, though I might just start doing that. I hear that it's very powerful and works very well.

Indirect game (at least for me) can lead to interesting conversation, but takes a while to get really good rapport going.
__________________
TRAINING STATUS: It's raining...
since: late October 2008
E: ~10, N: 10 or 11.
GOAL: Girlfriend.
Reply With Quote
  #4 (permalink)  
Old 08-04-2008, 07:45 PM
young dubs's Avatar
young dubs young dubs is offline  - Male
 
Join Date: Jun 2008
Age: 22
Posts: 216
Default

you can have a lot of interestin conversations with direct method as well.. just take it there, and its easier to gain rapport with someone...just show them who you are and take an sincere interest in who they are and what they have to say, and it'll go from there


g'luck homie

Dubs


ps what part of NY you in? I'm up in westchester
__________________
They don't make em like me no more.... matter fact, they never made like me before...


Trust yourself, and you'll know how to live
Warnings: 1  |   Reply With Quote
Reply

Bookmarks

Thread Tools
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are On
Forum Jump


All times are GMT -8. The time now is 03:21 AM.



Featured Products

Magic Bullets



Love Systems Routines Manual



Love Systems Program Schedule



Interview Series




Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.7.3
Copyright ©2000 - 2008, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
SEO by vBSEO 3.2.0

Love Systems  |  Pickup Game Video