My Day Game Field Reports

trackfire · #1 (**permalink**) 08-01-2008, 11:31 PM

Hey, everyone!

I'm pretty new to all of this, but it seems that a lot of discussion in the "Newbie" threads are better suited for night game. Since my schedule doesn't allow for any "night" game (i.e. bars, clubs, etc), nor do I like the bar or club that much, I decided to put all of my practice (for right now) into day game.

I have a few questions:

1. Progressing? When I first started getting serious in approaching women, I approached maybe one or two a day, but with the intent of at least holding a good conversation. I would usually ask about something going on with them (like a healing arm or a tough time carrying books). I got really interesting conversations, some #'s (though one was fake), some emails and a date out of doing that.

However, now that I'm trying to be more risky with my openers, I feel that I'm losing touch. I approached somewhere between 12 and 15 women today (not including some warmups, like asking for time), but none of those approaches really went anywhere. I used one canned opener ("Hey; I like your handbag...Is it fake?"), which went HORRIBLY, and all of my other openers were really weak.

So then what's better: approaching two or three women I really feel like having a solid conversation with, or approaching lots to practice on ridding my approach anxiety, but not really intending on doing much with them?

I'll write some of the openers I've used recently in another thread. One of them has had about a 100% opening rate, while I haven't tested out the other one too much yet.

2. Approaching Asians: I'm unsure as to how often racial preferences are discussed on the forums, but I am practicing my day game primarily to find an Asian girlfriend (hence, another reason why I'm not focusing on my night-game). Is a direct opener such as commenting on their beauty a good opener to use on them? I've heard that some had great success with it, while others would warn against doing that.

Thanks for reading!

the_yeti · #2 (**permalink**) 08-14-2008, 08:45 PM

Hey man I actually happen to live in the same field as you(NYC). I'm not racist or anything but if your gonna approach asian chicks this is what I've learned about asian chicks in my day game specifically in New York City. Asian chicks in my day game for some reason everytime I approach an asian set, whether its in Soho, Chinatown, Midtown whatever (I've tried everywhere in the city even Brooklyn), they are so unreceptive (meaning quiet, shy, uneasy, not open people).

Its a really interesting but strange paradox, cause everytime I open up a group of white girls or even latino girls for instance, my game is just so much more easier cause they're more receptive and I can work my material better with them. Usually my scenarios with asians most of the time seem turn out to be dead sets. Don't get me wrong though, I have had sucessfull asian sets where I close numbers during th day, but those have only been in rare instances. Usually in the sucessfull instances the girls happen to be more open, My best guess it that they experienced the feeling of rebellion against they're parents ways finally, or how they've been raised. I'm half asian so I just happen to have had gone through the same thing with my parents(mom) back in my creepy afc days, you know the drill..study, obey/respect your parents, chores, work, etc. That asian code of strick. I think its also like a cultural raising difference but this is all just my personal opinion.

If it means anything today I went day gaming in Soho today and I ended up with another dead asian set in Sophora. However I also ended up number closing two white girls in the Billabong store(that place is so cool) running the same routine stack I use.

I suggest it might speed up the process of you getting an asian girlfriend with some night game (parties, clubs, etc.) if you want avoid bullshit.