GEtting no#s easily in day game, then not getting day 2's. Where is the disconnect?

[Charms76]

Team,

I do a lot of Day Game, I open with the universal Day game Stack, “Hey your adorable aren’t you going to say it back etc..etc..) The problem is, I build attraction well…and fast often. But then where do we take that attraction? It’s like the attraction is there , it’s built, they are looking at me with puppy dog eyes, then I go into bantering, which makes me uncomfortable just fluffing in front of them after 15 minutes.

It's like the opener was awesome, then I lose that sexual energy when I go into the fluff talk.

Worst part is, when I try to contact them a week later, there BT is down and they realize that I am some stranger from the market.

How do I keep or even escalate from that awesome attraction I build at the market?

In the last month I have had at least 4 women who where talking me during day game that didn’t want the interaction to end. I was the one who left it.

I guess then, its time to go for the insta-date….

I have just begun, texting 10 minutes after I number close with
“So nice to make a new friend” That is now my standard 10 minutes after number closing text. From there, call or text, whichever the situation calls for the next day? Probably better to text something non-needy the next day, and see if she replies, if so attempt to get a daily text in so I can further indoctrinate myself in her life.

I would prefer to escalate right there because otherwise I am spending weeks, taking the slow route while dealing with these women trying to prove that I am non-needy just to get them back into the same state in which I initially met them!

So in review. I am opening great, building attraction great, # closing-great, ….then spending the next two weeks proving that I am non-needy and losing that buying temperature that I built up initially.

What should I do to make these #closes solid?

Learn more on your day game

[EightO]

Your text after the #close seems to be directing her to think of you as "just a friend". Putting yourself in their shoes, how would you feel if a woman had been building attraction in you, only to say that they have a "new friend", rather than any kind of romantic interest?

It sounds like you're taking the desire to prove you are not needy a bit far. How about opening them the next day with a funny text (there is a great list stickied in the phone/text game forum) before setting up a day2 in a fun location?