I posted this in the Newbie section and really didn't get much help so I will try it here. Its kind of a field report too I guess..... Any help/advice will be appreciated, thanks.
HB9, met 4 months ago, lived in another city, just moved to my city. Last Monday I invited her and her friend to come to this big church activity, she came, she said "thanks a ton for inviting me that was a lot of fun, we have to hang out again soon"
Wed. her and the same friend came to my club night, we danced and had a lot of fun.
Everytime she has answered the phone she sounds all excited and happy, and I told her that and she said because she is so excited to talk to me.
Fri. I called and asked her if she would like to join me for an adventure on Sat. afternoon and I didn't tell her what it was. Everytime I call she answers all excited and I said that to her and she replied, "cuz I'm excited to talk to you!"
Sat. I took her to this mountain area, on the way we got a yogurt cone. We hiked, and then there is this lil swimming hole, and then this waterfall you can slide down. She loved it, she loved the surprise of the unknown, the adventure, the whole thing. We had a blast, constantly laughing and enjoying each other. Lots of
Kino, hugging, some hand holding while hiking. I wanted to Kiss close, but didn't. Once when having a lengthy hug I was hoping she'd look up to have me kiss her but no, another time I had her jump and me catch her in my arms and I was gonna do it then after I caught her but I slipped and we fell in the water.
On the hike down, she mentioned stuff about she has commitment issues and never has "boyfriends" just "possibilities" and how this former possibility doesn't know she moved back yet and when she left they were still a thing but she doesn't want to be anymore. We talked about how people should be more straightforward and not play games(the irony is that we are playing games, lol) I wanted to just be like "ok, no games, I like you" but I know that doesn't work. She also mentioned how with this ex guy she tried so hard to like him but couldn't and I said you should not have to try to like someone it should just happen, she agreed.
She kept telling me how she loved the whole experience and she could spend all day there, and she had so much fun with me etc. etc. We took pics and one time after looking at it she said, "we look so cute together" Unfortunately she had to be to her first day of work at 5:30 PM so we had to end it at 5:00, she gave me a huge hug goodbye and rushed in to get ready for work.
It seems she likes me, and I for sure like her. However just a few weeks ago I thought another girl totally liked me and somehow I think I messed that up(I still totally like that girl too but am moving on so to speak)
That said, this time around I want to make sure and do it RIGHT.
I just posted the pics we took on myspace and wrote her a lil message saying to check it out and that she proved to be a good adventurer and that I'll look forward to our next adventure.
That was Sat. today is Tue. since then she has not texted or called, I called her yesterday, she answered all excited like usual, we talked for a bit. I tried finding a time for a date 2 but basically her whole week is entirely booked with work, wedding stuff for her good friend, and a family reunion out of state.
Her and the Bachelorette party might come out to my club night on Wed. I don't want her to forget how much fun she had with me and such before our next date. Also why couldn't I get the Kiss close when it seemed she was so into me??
I don't want to have to go so long to go on a 2nd date but it looks like we might have to. I am thinking she could do lunch on Thur. maybe, so maybe we can do an afternoon picnic???? date one was during the day as well, seems more difficult to get romantic and escalate during the day plus its rushed.
Should I go for a lunch date or just wait for over a week? try text gaming?
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Building comfort, lots of kino, no kiss??? 
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