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Old 07-30-2008, 08:37 PM
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Default I think I rushed it!

So, I met a HB 9 online, totally hooked her with is kissing cheating, she threw her number at me...
two day later, great phone convo, mass comfort and rapport
next night, she texts asks me out, I give her a time constraint, "I have to meet a buddy for a drink, but I can swing by for one with you..." end up hanging out for awhile, then I end the night (No Kiss close, damnit) but she texts me a few times telling me she had fun, Im memorable, etc.
I ignore for two days then call kind of late, leave message about something amazing I saw...
She calls back next night super excited to know about my experience, i tell her, shes jealous... (a fly brought me flowers, very cool story) then gets another call and says she has to go cuz its a girlfriend and it will be a long call, she says I will call you tomorrow.
Next day: To get the ball back in my court i text the twim gambit, she responds, i reply with ill tell you later.
I call the next day, and she says Im watching a movie, ill call you later, kind of cold and annoyed sounding... and nothing else all day

So, I'm wondering if I moved too fast. I wasnt even pushing to hang out, I was attempting DHV but was cut off each time. My thought is to blow her off for awhile, Ill be out of town anyway, and try her back next week with something totally DHV, and if I get a cold response (or none) ditch her. I got plenty of others, but this one is almost a ten and totally my style, so I'm hoping if I back off I can salvage this one.

Any other suggestions?
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Old 07-31-2008, 05:22 AM
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i dont think it was because you rushed, sometimes the logistics just arent right..... you got the best attitude tho for when u next call, if she aint it drop it
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Old 07-31-2008, 05:35 PM
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Old 08-01-2008, 01:45 AM
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thanks guys for your encouragement, so this is what happened...

she called me tonight and i started some more comfort routines, then she said she had a wild story... she went out saturday night and met a guy and shes moving in with him this week and they are getting married on Halloween.

I was like no kidding... you are off your rocker!

so then i switched over to the other line and then clicked back and ended the call saying i had a buddy that i had to go meet for a drink, blah, blah... like they say get off the phone ASAP if youre rattled....

so heres the deal either shes giving me a HUGE shit test or she really is f-ing nuts... either way I think I will call her bluff and hit her up next week and totally not care about her story... whats to lose? if nothing else I have a super hot pivot (with very hot friends) right?!

if she brings it up i was thinking of something like, "Well now at least I dont have to worry about you hitting on me cuz i was thinking you were interested... now i dont have to let you down cuz youre not my type, so now we can focus on just being friends... what a relief!"

the best thing is, if she is that crazy shes not my type and if i play my cards right she will totally get me in with her hot punk friends! and who knows, i could still f close her when her shit falls apart! if its even real...

its funny, at first i thought this would hit me hard, but its actually given me a great confidence boost, its amazing what building strong inner game can do!

i am loving this game!

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haha keep us informed dude
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