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Old 06-20-2008, 12:40 AM
kennnie kennnie is offline  - Male
 
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I got this girl's number from a friend of mine and we've been texting back and forth for about a week. Started off with a little c/f and qualification then she started askin the comfort buildin questions, u knw passions, family... and stuff like that. Bt av hinted at meeting her twice and she said not now, later, both times. < The one time she did invite me over to her pal's house, I was busy and couldn't make it, but this was just a day after she'd said she didn't want to meet yet>. Excuse, 'she needs to get her weave taken out first.' Am not particularly interested in salvaging the situation, but i'd like to knw what u guys think, coz all we've done is texted, and I thought we were in comfort cause i had qualified her and we were talking about common interests, e.t.c So a while back, I mentioned sthng that led to her askin abt a former relationship I had, and i told her straight up that we weren't close enough for me to talk about tht stuff with her. We talkd a bit after that, but since she isnt showin interest in meeting up, i stoppd texting her the following day (she sent the last text). It's been 2 days nw, and it's not that am trying a freeze out or anything, bt this is the 1st time am conciously trying to follow the emotional progression model and ad like to knw wht u guys think I did wrong here.
P.s: We've never actually met, bt I knw some of her friends.
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Old 06-21-2008, 12:47 PM
 
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have you ever seen her on a pic or so? (before you fall in love with text messages, you should know how she looks like)
She ever heard your voice? (part of comfort building)
She made the right invitation... she invited you to somewhere where she is going anyway. You have to do the same. Ask her if she wants to join you at something you are doing anyway.
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Old 06-21-2008, 06:57 PM
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I havnt seen a picture of her, nd the reason i didnt call ws coz i felt she hadnt qualified herself enough quite yet. Nw, whn i look at it, i thnk she rushd us in2 comfort because calln seemd 2 big of an IOI 4 me 2 give. <av always bn picky with women nd she jst hadnt earnd it>
So i guess my question should've been- if a girl leads u in2 comfort whn ur nt done qualifying, hw do u deal with tht? shrug it off with a little c&f?
p.s. i didnt ask her out. i told her we needed 2 hang out. does
tht conote the same meaning?
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