Stuck In Comfort?? Or Nt Even There? I got this girl's number from a friend of mine and we've been texting back and forth for about a week. Started off with a little c/f and qualification then she started askin the comfort buildin questions, u knw passions, family... and stuff like that. Bt av hinted at meeting her twice and she said not now, later, both times. < The one time she did invite me over to her pal's house, I was busy and couldn't make it, but this was just a day after she'd said she didn't want to meet yet>. Excuse, 'she needs to get her weave taken out first.' Am not particularly interested in salvaging the situation, but i'd like to knw what u guys think, coz all we've done is texted, and I thought we were in comfort cause i had qualified her and we were talking about common interests, e.t.c So a while back, I mentioned sthng that led to her askin abt a former relationship I had, and i told her straight up that we weren't close enough for me to talk about tht stuff with her. We talkd a bit after that, but since she isnt showin interest in meeting up, i stoppd texting her the following day (she sent the last text). It's been 2 days nw, and it's not that am trying a freeze out or anything, bt this is the 1st time am conciously trying to follow the emotional progression model and ad like to knw wht u guys think I did wrong here.
P.s: We've never actually met, bt I knw some of her friends. |