Perception is Reality

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Hey guys,

As we all know, NLP teaches us that perception is reality. Now considering each person has their own perception, we can logically claim that each person has their own reality. Have you ever had that argument where one person says it's one colour and the other says it's a different colour? Well you're both right and wrong at the same time, and depending on whos reality to you look through.

So how does this help in comfort? Well, each person lives in a bubble, their reality if you will, and so each person percieves the world differently, so what if two realities became merged? What follows are some basic pointers for creating this bubble effect as well as what can be done with it.

CREATING

1. Point out other people (This sets up the idea of the two of you against the rest of the world)
2. Mirror and match (by matching and mirroring the girls body language you will become naturally close in rapport)
3. Listen to her (if you ask a question listen to her answer find out about her)
4. Let her know about you (Not the you that's a PUA, or this attractive persona you put up, but the real you, your strengths AND your weaknesses)

WHAT CAN BE DONE WITH THIS

There are three paths that can be taken with this.

1. You can completely dominate her reality, ie anything you don't agree with you cut out entirey. This is great for getting SNL as it allows you to set the frames and to be the lead.
2. You can merge the worlds, find a link between the two realities and have it as your and hers safe haven. This is how people fall in love.
3. Allow her to dominate your reality, conform to what she believes. This is pointless in the form of getting laid or creating a relationship (unless you're submissive) but is fantastic for making friends to increase your social circle, so use this sort of ideal on the mother hen, that way she can't not respect you as a person cos your beliefs are aligned.

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