Common Problems with the Questions Game

[tenorio]

OK, out with a sharp-witted shark of a girl last night, I ran into some problems with the questions game. She asked questions that I didn't have an adequate response to.

To give some background, I KNOW how to play the questions game. Rules, including the "no question twice" rule, were clarified. And yes, I asked the "how many boyfriends have you had?" as a preemptive strike.

Without further ado, here were the issues:

*she insists that "how many girlfriends have you had?" is a different question. I get this a lot, but don't know quite what to do.

*she asks "how many woman have you slept with?" I responded with "ladies don't ask and gentlemen don't tell" but really...this doesn't work...the QG is suppost to be HONEST.

If anyone could suggest potential responses to these questions, that'd be awesome.

[PuaStage]

This woman is not that sharp-witted (no-offense), what she's doing is throwing you shit tests. It might be that she feels tested with your questions and in-turn, she is testing you right back in order to get a response to that.

So, when she asks these questions, what does she expect? Well, here it is, she wants you to react. If you overreact and become flustered, you will fail her shit-test. If you respond in a very calm, collective manner that portrays that your unapologetic from your previous experiences, you will pass. Here is a possible way to do it. And I'll give you an example with what happened to me with one girl that I number closed.

On our second question, she asked me "When was the last time you had sex."
Clearly, I was taken off guard by it, so here was my strategy. I acknowledged her agressiveness with a smile and said, "wow, you don't waste anytime do you?" And then right after, I said, "That's good though, now we're getting somewhere." Then I answered, unapologetically, "October" (I met this girl in January). Now, her reaction was "Oh, okay. So you're not a pervert or anything like that. That's good." Now I was lucky where as it had been a while and had the answer been last week, maybe her reaction may have been different. But thats besides the point.

Now, the key here was being laid back and answering the question. With the how many girlfriends have you had question, you say something, "Well, girlfriends come and go, but ones that I had a real connection with....." and then you put your answer here.

The sex question is tough, depending on the type of woman, the reactions will be different. I suggest sticking to answers like, "well, I'm a gentleman, so lets just say you can't count them all on one hand." Or two with however it works. This shows that you have respect for your partners and instantly, you control the frame by not allowing her to dodge you around.

The key to the question game is that you must control the frame. Make sure you are the ones that escalate the nature of the questions. And make sure they vary in type. Here are a few I like to use ...

#1 When is the last time you cried and why?
#2 When was the last time you felt like a school girl and got really giddy and why?
#3 What is the one thing you wouldn't want your parents to know about you?

And from here, you can get sexual with it, or keep it light-hearted.

Hope this helps.

Happy gaming,
Stage

[agold7964]

when i play it i like to be straight up honest, i don't do cocky/funny stuff, i don't make judging remarks:

if you could immagine your idea date, what would it be like.
if you could have any superpower, what would it be
to
what's one thing you don't want your parents to know about you. (and we generally just end up getting into a discusion, if it ever were to fade off, we just jump right back on this game!)