How to build comfort without commitment.

[AsolDier]

As you all know in comfort there are 3 main stages divided over a period of 7-10 hours.
if the girl is a virgin it could be wayy more.

Anyway how can you create the connection that is necessary, but without being necessarily bf\gf. Im not looking for a relationship. And I want to girls to feel the same way about me. Just attraction and trust. BUT NOT WANTING TO MARRY ME AND SHIT....
anyone know what I mean??

So how do you really run a number of relationships at the same time?

[sdnightfly]

Don't bring anything up about relationships... if she sounds like she's the typical "seeing each other" then "my boyfriend", then you're probably going to have to play the waiting game...she's set in her ways unless you can break through it.

Sometimes it's a matter of catching a girl at the right time...blowout with her boyfriend, going out with her friends to blow off steam.

You can also just have a bunch of female friends that you don't have sex with and use that to score with other girls.

Trust doesn't matter in this case (comfort without committment). You do what you want to do, and so do they.

Don't worry about someone trying to get you to marry them.

[AsolDier]

thanks for the advice...its good

[earcracker]

Don't even think about or do any bf/gf-stuff, keep things (sexually) exciting, see each other no more than 2-3 times a week, have sex as soon as possible right after you meet her and make it explicit that the sex she's getting from you is not exclusive for her. Do get other fb's, but let them meet as little as possible until you're completely comfortable with such a situation yourself. Then you can throw parties with a couple of fb's together, which I had the pleasure to do this weekend (danced and kissed with all of them :-) It's great, good luck and don't be fased. If anyone asks me how many fb's I have, I always say: "That changes, it fluctuates ...", and no more than that.