Framing

[The_Law]

I wa in comfort last sat, In a bedroom on a bed with a girl - shocking I know, but its true. A guy came in we both know, he said 'wotcha up to'. I said 'shes just been sucking me off m8, u want me to leave u 2 alone for a min' - teasing cos it clearly wasnt the case.

She said 'stop saying things like that'

She also said 'I hate it when my friends try to bed me'. Its a bit of a firght for am I a friends or a sexual therat. It only matters in her mind right, but its 1 all right now.

Really the questiong here I think is...I dont know if there is actually, cos I'm just gonna keep up the sexual framing and C&F to keep my sexual threat frame.

I dont want her to have 'hes just a friend *phew*' in her mind for too long. Any advice on what I can do to solidify myself in her mind as a sexual threat. Any of you guys run into this prob before?

Side note, It was a bad night and I was far too wussy - Damnit! It was like a conection night, but she connected to the wuss inside for far too much of the time - Anything I can do to get in her mind that that was my inner wuss and not who I am Now so she aint like 'ohhhh man, he Is jelly inside...'?

Also, how do you allow her to connect with you without letting your wuss out...jeez, I think I just have to keep going until my wuss Isnt there huh? I dunno. Help if you can...please. I'll send you a box of cookies.