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Old 01-20-2008, 04:52 AM
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Default Common problem: HB wanting to "let her hair down"

In the comfort/connection phase I've often heard girls say something like:

"I would like to be able to let me hair my hair down like other girls, just go with the flow, do what I really feel like without having to worry about what my mind tells me not to do or the consequences"

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This happened twice recently. The first one turned away as I went in for the KC (after she said this). The second one was on the phone so it's a work in progess but it's a matter of time as she's into me.

What does this mean? ...and most importantly how to turn this so that she sees YOU as the forbidden fruit with whom she can let her hair down?

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Not a whole lot to go on there, but that sounds like an ASD response to me. Right before you get an answer like that, are you talking about sexually framed things? If so, you might be doing that too quickly.
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Thanks Jedi.
How would you have dealt with that ASD response in order to escalate?

No we weren't. We were just talking about relationships: friends, family, bfriends, etc.
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