Is building rapport more important than demonstrating value to her?

[Aries2003]

I have over the last 6 months discovered that my game is more solid when i concentrate on building comfort with a girl within minutes of meeting her than when i concentrate on attracting her. It seems to me that all i need to do within the rapport building phase with a girl is truckloads of kino escalation and qualification to keep the interaction sexual and prevent the LJBF zone. No DHV stories or routines.

Infact my large sarge was based on simply building rapport with the girl using a grounding routine and some advanced comfort techniques from Magic Bullets while maintaining sexual tension through kino, sexual patterning and lots of qualification, thats it. No single DHV routine. In fact the HB told me later on that she thought were just going to be friends initially. But my kino and sexual patterning wouldnt let that happen!

Does anyone experience this gaming pattern that needs no attraction DHV because its kind of strange but seems to work for me?

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[The_Jedi]

If you're a good-looking enough guy, or exhibit a specific attitude they like, they might get attracted more quickly than "usual." Whatever, though, if it works for you, play it out, bro.

[Aries2003]

I wouldnt say im very good looking...i just find that i tend to lose sarges where i concentrate on attracting while im successful most times i just build comfort

[buttman00965]

wow interested bro, i find that girls are attracted to me easily(not to brag, im tanned, very muscular, tall, and have a handsome stern model face)...i need to focus on comfort more and think i can have it the wat u do..

[Hardwired]

I think it's Vin DiCarlo that works on the premise of "Assume attraction!". Whatever you do, even if it's to shun you, it's because "She's into me!". Confidence + plowing is a hard combo for chicks to resist.

My preference is for her to find my DHV's for herself along the way- in my case, there's plenty to be had