So I used a little bit of NLP theory combined with some
Juggler here to make a killer comfort routine.
Isolation is NECESSARY here.
First off, I dont like most NLP, the idea of hypnotizing a girl into liking me honestly seems slightly sleazy, and high value guys don't need stuff like this. After all, we have enough individual value to be attractive by ourselves.
Start with a lead in. Mention something about yourself that is a dhv. From there, ask what she does outside the venue you're at by leading. Example
So I'd consider myself a pretty adventurous person. I snowboard a lot during the winters, I was actually on the race team for my college at one point. You seem like you have more going for yourself than the typical good looking girl, what do you do outside of bars/clubs/coffeeshops/shopping
Here the girl explains herself. I choose to release most times here since this is the beginning of comfort/qualification (I generally blur qualification starting in a2, and run it midway through comfort). I like to stick in a classic banter line. Here is an example
(look at her with shock and amazement).... no way..!...I absolutely can't stand _____hobby.
After girl looks bewildered, I get a chance to reveal something about myself. Here is where a little NLP comes in...You need to be digging for nuggets on her emotions during comfort to build rapport really quickly. After you say the false disqualifier in a joking manner, give some light
kino and use her hobby to ground herself to your life in any way shape or form. Chances are, there is someone you know who loves the same hobby she follows, no matter how obscure it is. After you've grounded the hobby to your circle, mention something unique about that family member/friend that you liked. Saying they were very charismatic, incredibly generous, spontaneous, or deep works great. From here, further lead by mentioning what types of feelings that your friend/family member got when they did such and such hobby, then ask her what type she got. As
juggler says, make statements.
If you make a statement before finding their feelings, they'll feel much better conversational bonding and when they reveal their emotions to you whether it relates to you or not, they'll feel they're connecting on some deeper level. Rapport = ability to tell someone else their feelings no matter what. Notice how you would only tell your true feelings about a girl/person/ideal to a person you truly trust? This is what we're trying to pry out. Furthermore, when you mention what emotions your friend/family member got when doing such a hobby, the more likely the girls will just say she gets a similar enjoyment out of the hobby. Choose wisely.
I actually think that's really cool. people give the strangest looks to me when I say that (referring to previous disqualifier)...I have a cousin/family member/old friend who was real into that. She's quite charismatic. She always said how she liked the feeling of adventure and the way she connected with herself while doing ______hobby. So what does it do for you?
Lets say she mentioned spontaneity for the feeling that her hobby of surfing brings her.
Cut the thread. But not totally... use what she said previously to plan your attack. After you know something she does in her spare time, and the value it brings out in her, create a future fantasy scenario. Using her thoughts of spontaneity and surfing.
Not bad. I've always wanted to go backpacking throughout europe. I'm not sure if i'll be able to do it with my future schedule or of I'd have anybody to go with, but I have this fantasy of a hot weekend in madrid with the best wine and maybe some nude beaches to show that americans arent all fat[/i]
Here is another example for another emotion... you really need only a few here since most hobbies elicit the same female feelings, not to mention most girls have the same hobbies. (shopping, scrapbooking, traveling, exercising, cooking, reading, extreme sports, pets, friends) You can tie in just about any emotion to a certain story. Lets take that quick european backpacking story...
Say a girl enjoys shopping and gets a feeling of novelty from it. The same european story would work great... just mention how you wanna see new places. Or if a girl mentions how she likes working out, use the same story and mention how you wanna go running on the beach in spain in the morning.
After this... I sexually frame things. Cut the thread completely from previous.
I accomplish this by asking a quick hypothetical question.
So hypothetical question...say if you met the perfect guy, who was strong, smart, charismatic, and caring. Furthermore, you have perfect chemistry with him. Would you go out with this guy if you couldn't have sex with him for the next five years?
Sometimes, you'll get asked if you're talking about yourself. In which you can ask if you're her perfect guy, then mention that you enjoy good sex way too much to ever divulge from it.
From here on out, you're already talking about sex/other topics. You can go into a kiss really easily after this.
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Comfort routine for eliciting emotions + building rapport. 
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