Is comfort stage a best place to use deep thoughts?

[stradivarius]

Hi guys,

I am a pretty eloquent speaker, when it comes to talking about deep issues like life, faith, values, beliefs,etc. and I found out, that woman love that stuff. Talking about that stuff actually brought me more than being cocky&funny all the time. Shall I wait till comfort stage to use this advantage to separate myself from the "let just have some fun" guys and show that I can catch on an intelligent vibe too.... or should I use this as an attraction element .... I am afraid that when I use it in attraction, I may sound like a boring guy who can do nothig more, but ponder. When is the best time to go to the intellectual stuff? .... of course this can be done in quiet pubs or caffees not in a disco club . LOL

[xLEGENDx]

Good question. Maybe go into love at first sight, finding a soulmate, or the idea that there's some type of force between you two meeting... but as for religion and faith... try to avoid that until later on... you don't want to seem to serious or goody goody to the hb9-10s (you switch this up later on ofcourse).

Generally, if you're going to play this routine, you want to focus on serendipity than on "God is out there". Spiritual, not religious.

Hope that helps some.

[Vincent Chase]

A little bit, but probably not on the firs few meets. Going to deep can make things awkward or pigeonhole you as an intellectual. once she's seen your human spectrum, all the emotions you possess and can make her feel, then you can bring that out because it's another facet to you, however, to EARLY ad it can be overwhelming to even the most intellectual and "deep" of women.

[Finesse_]

You can "start" to get deep and then back off and be like... "Man... I just met you and shit and Im gettin all deep, man stop that." But really when she starts listening intently you can pretty much do whatever you want, conversation wise as long as you dont DLV.

[kennnie]

I found myself in an awkward situation recently. I was in comfort but it got really heavy and I started to think that maybe the conversation was getting too deep. I guess my question is: How deep should you go in comfort?

[stradivarius]

I have posted this post a long time ago.... now I have adjusted my mindset according to my experience. First and foremost, girls want to have fun, they want to feel special and valued ( not just because of her looks, but because of her personality and endeavour). But they want to have a man, who can keep up his word and has a high value - an alpha male ( you can look up characteristics of the alpha male in the search ). You can utter something deep every now and then to show that you are intelligent, but going all the way deep will eventualy bore a woman ( as it happened many times in my case - so I learnt from that)