The path to INNER GAME

[BradP]

It's been said that I have the tightest inner game in the community (not sure if thats true, but thats what they say). Inner game is not something I write about here. Why? It can be a nauseating topic. It can lead to all kinds of mental masturbation, especially in a KJ culture. This post is not going to be about giving you the information for your inner game, this is to help you USE the information you already have. I know you've read quite a lot already, and most of it is basically useless. It's not because the writers dont know what they're talking about, it's because this stuff is hard to put into action.

I'm going to give you a process and then an example of how it plays out.

PROCESS
There's 3 steps to getting inner game together.

The first is INFORMATION. I assume since you're here and you're reading, you're probably well on your way with this one. it's very simple. You read or listen to audio from good sources. You read mASF, DYD», maybe the VAH, maybe Complete System CDs. That's all good info.

Taking in the info is a good first step. But if this is all you do, you will see zero results. I teach tons of guys and the majority are struggling with this problem. Information, by itself, does NOT get you results.

The second step is creating a PROCEDURE.

You must turn the info into a procedure that you follow whenever you're out meeting women. This is a creative process and varies from person to person.

The third step is CONSISTENT ACTION. The path to inner game is paved with CONSISTENT ACTION, not more information. Without consistent action, the information is meaningless and the time you spend reading is nothing more than entertainment.

As a writer of self help literature, I have to tell you, we are not here to entertain you, it's supposed to help you and change your life. but many people digest the material as entertainment because that's all they know. In America we are subject to a constant barrage of entertainment, even in mediums that are meant to be informative. Like TV news for example. It's suppose to give you info...but whatdya know, looks like it's a hot blond chick reading the news. There's not a single overweight female newscaster in america. This is because TV news will ultimately live or die by it's entertainment value, not it's information value. This is just one example of how the line between information and entertainment has been permanently blurred for the majority of the population. So remember, we are not here to entertain you.

Back to the formula-
1. information
2. procedure
3. consistent action

Make sense?

Here's an example of how it plays out.

Let's say you have approach anxiety. You can read my post in advanced entitled "Blow me or Blow Me Out" and it will give you a new way to look at approaching. In theory, you will see that it makes sense to welcome blowouts, not to fear them. That's step 1.

But when you get out there, you'll probably still be shitting a brick, scared to death you're going to get blown out. Reading the post does not fix your inner game, it only gets you started on the right track.

On to step 2.

You adopt a PROCEDURE. Every time you go out you shoot for a 20% blowout rate. This is the optimal blowout rate in my opinion. If you get 0% blowouts you're probably playing it too safe. If you're getting 50% blowouts, you probably have problems with the fundamentals (BL, EC, voice tone, clothing, etc). So you adopt a procedure where you're shooting for
10 sets total per night
3 are warm ups
2 are blowouts
somewhere between 3 and 5 sets are attracted

Then you judge the girls according to logistics. Number close the girls who have bad logistics, and focus on the girl who's you best shot for a same day lay.

Now that's a procedure. It gives you a really good chance of getting laid every time you go out.

On to step 3.

You have to go out CONSISTENTLY. You have to use the procedure all the time. you have to get meaningful feedback so you can make ADJUSTMENTS. It is crucial to make adjustments. That's what seperates the people who succeed in life from the people who fail.

Maybe you find that you're optimum blowout rate is 40%. You get blow out a lot and you get laid a lot. You've take the procedure and adjusted it after you got meaningful feedback from your consistent action. Constistent action allows you to make the right adjustments.

This is the path to inner game. Reading is totally overrated for inner game. That's why I rarely post on it. I hope this post on how to use the information you already have is helpful.