Jesus Christo, a pole? A disco ball? Lava Lamps? Your pad is gonna end up looking like Quagmire's house from Family Guy.
OK, your apartment or house shouldn't scream PLAYER.
It should scream CHARACTER and just sort of hint at player. What's gonna make your target think that you have alot of female guests over? A disco ball? Or having a stock of extra toothbrushes and a jar of coldcream in your medicine cabinet(yes, they look)?
1. KITCHEN
Basics- Should be relatively clean and have a fridge stocked with ADLEAST breakfast munchies and FRUIT(strawberries, oranges, kiwi, etc).
Have a bunch of beverages handy that HBs like to drink; diet coke, juice, San Pellegrino(must be served with a lime wedge), etc. Always have 2 bottles of redwine in your cuboard, a bottle of good vodka in your freezer, and a bottle of champagne in your fridge(and the proper glasses to pour it into).
Character- Go out and get one of those magnetic poetry sets and stick it on
your fridge. When the HB comes over tell her NOT to mess with the poetry set. Your fridge will be coated in the most chick friendly erotic poetry you've ever seen inside of a week
2. LIVING ROOM
Basics- Should be clean but not too neat. Crap all over the place is gross, Immaculate is to try hard. I'm assuming you have a decent stereo/tv/dvd player in your living room. Personally, I think having a nice couch that folds out into a bed is a crucial weapon in the PUA's arsenal.
"back to my place for drinks? Bring your friends, they're fun!" Take the whole crew back to your place, get the friends loaded on vodka, fold out the couch. Now you and the target can sneak off into the bedroom to have your fun and it's your little secret. Have mimosas and english muffins ready for when the friends wakeup. The will love you for it.
Character- Everything in your living room that isn't furniture should reflect you and your personality...albeit I more shinnier more interesting you. Computer nerd? Have some asci art framed on your wall. Big into cycling? Picture of Lance Armstrong. Fuck lavalamps/disco-balls/poles and all that tacky crap. These things telegraph shallowness and boredom. If your on a budget like me, just make your own art.
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OK, I just realized this little rant was getting a bit long. So if this is helping anybody lemme know and I'll add more later.
Anyways my point is, don't deck out your pad like a "player", deck it out like cool, interesting guy with a busy sex life. Being considerate, having an extra toothbrush, a hairdryer, and some nivea moisturizer in your medicine cabinet is gonna turn every f-close into a consistent FB.