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Old 04-17-2006, 03:12 AM
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Default Sarging on College\Uni ( Become a KING ), easy steps to get all girls on college

How to become the king of your college.
This is something that’s been tested and proved as pure GOLD. This works only if you are going to a new college, where the majority of people don’t already know one another. There’s no need to have some crazy PU or social skills to do this, everybody can do it, and it’s so simple. It’s a natural human process that you can use to improve your social life.
When young people come to college, most of them don’t know each other, so sooner or later they will need to make friends, or join an already established group.
Usually it takes a few weeks till those friendship circles are formed. So after a few weeks, you will see many circles with 5 to 10 members in each group.
Once they are formed, some of them will last until the very end of college days, until graduation. It’s hard to manipulate already established groups. The only thing you can do in that case is to join the group, but then you cannot establish yourself as the leader, as you are a new member. The easiest way to join an already established group is to pick one person from group, and create rapport with them. She or he will invite you to go and hang out with the rest of the group. Then slowly you can create rapport with all the other members, and that way you will become an intrinsic part of that circle of friends.
But I must say that this is not the way I like to do it. My style is more creating a group and controlling it, and that’s what I want to teach you.
The first 7-10 days are particularly crucial. In those first few days, social circles will be created. The goal is to create a social circle of 6-7 hot girls, make them friends, and establish yourself as a leader of the group. Going to clubs with them: can you just imagine the respect and admiration you could have, going to a club with 10 hot girls? Basically, with this kind of social proof, you can have any girl in the club. Or inviting your new hot friends to your home party. Then let them invite a few of their other friends also. Soon you will find yourself living your life surrounded with hot girls. That’s the lifestyle I am talking about.
So let me teach you how to do it.
During the first and second day of college, people will be extremely friendly, because they will be nervous, scared, and anxious of the new environment, the new context in their life. Some of them will look lost, like sheep that have wandered from the flock. They will feel lonely, and will have an incredible urge to meet new people and make friends in order to remove the unpleasant feeling of isolation and aloneness. You can use this knowledge to make a difference in your own life.
Don’t be shy; be friendly towards them, there is no pressure to seduce them, or anything like that. You can go straight for rapport without concerning yourself with attraction. It’s just about being friendly, cool and normal, and getting to know people that you will spend the next few years with. Don’t be weird, and don’t talk about your obsessive computer gaming habit and addiction to internet porn.
Naturally during these first few days there will be many events, introductory sessions, initial lectures, and so on. Information is normally advertised clearly in the college so you should get there early and make sure you know what’s going on. When you go to one of these events, make sure you try to sit next to some hot chick that you would like to befriend. Start a conversation, exchange some basic facts about yourselves. Where you’re from, your hobbies, your family; get them into some kind of conversation. Exchange numbers, hang-out with her after the class or lecture, go for a coffee or drink. Just be friendly, and try to make new friends. Don’t try to PU them! Not yet, anyway. You can get them in class, in hallway, inside dorms. Whatever.
Next day, or at the next class, do the same thing with a new hot girl, sit down next to her in the class, or talk for 20-30 minutes, build rapport, hang out with her afterwards, but this time invite the girl from before to join you. Or more of them if possible.
You will see as soon as you sit down with two girls that they will start to connect. They are extremely good at bonding, and creating rapport with each other. Especially hot girls. Because they have so many thing in common. So all you need to do is isolate 2 or more girls somewhere for a coffee, or a drink, and then let them connect by themselves.
Don’t hit on them, or try to seduce them during the first few weeks. The social proof you create for yourself by hanging out with these girls will get you tonnes of other girls. This is all about creating a lifestyle at university or college, a lifestyle that will bring you chicks by itself. But if you decide you want to take advantage of their loneliness in the new situation, then by all means find one and seduce her. But don’t bring her into your group.
You see, bringing a girl you’ve slept with into your social circle can be dangerous. You can easily destroy the group, or the girl you sleep with can spread pernicious rumours about you, and destroy your reputation in the group. So it’s better to keep the two activities separate.
So over the course of 5-7 days, you can collect 6-10 girls into a social circle. Gather them together at regular intervals. Once they get together, and get to know each other (which should take one or two meetings) they will become good friends.
They will exchange phone numbers, emails, and keep in contact. You will see how they will later plan to study together, to exchange books, scripts and essays for college.
After 10 days, and after you’ve created this social circle, try to get them together from time to time, like go out together partying…the more things you do with them, or they do together, the better friends they will become. So try to create some events that will bond them together even more.
Naturally the more experiences the group has together, the more things they will have to talk about tomorrow, and the more reason they will have to hang-out tomorrow. In this way it becomes self-perpetuating.
After you’ve formed your group of a few hot girls, a few weeks later you can start taking advantage of it. Start organizing home parties, and let your new hot friends, invite their girlfriends to the party. Because everyone likes you, and because you are their LEADER, chicks that come from outside the group will have considerable ATTRACTION for you.
You can also take them to clubs. Hug all of them, and go out. Have fun with them. Other chicks in the club will notice this, and trust me; they will start hitting on you. Chicks always want to have what other girls have. You can easily get to the point where you don’t need to pick up chicks at all, instead, they will be around you, and you just need to choose which one you want. Maybe this all looks a bit complicated at the moment, but it’s much easier to set up than you might imagine.
It’s hard to organize a group consisting solely of girls. Sometimes it happens, but mostly, you will have 1 or 2 guys inside. And that’s just fine. It’s ok to have a few of those guys inside your group. Usually, when we go out, those are the guys who are buying drinks for our girls…Also they protect the girls from other drunken guys inside club that may hit on them. So basically, they can be made use of.
Whenever you put a bigger group of people into one place, they will never work as a group; instead, they will separate into smaller groups of 3 to 5 people. You can see this demonstrated on the reality show ‘Big Brother’. And after the initial group forms, an alpha will come forward, the person who is going to be the head of the group. Usually this is the most dominant person, he makes all the decisions, and the rest blindly follow.
So if you organize everything, if you make decisions for the group, you think for them. They will see you as the Alpha male, and they will naturally follow you.
Later on, you can leave that social circle alone. Usually from the circle a new person comes forward that will becomes its leader, and decides everything for the group.
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Old 04-17-2006, 10:03 AM
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...There’s no need to have some crazy PU or social skills to do this...
I respectfully disagree.
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...create a social circle of 6-7 hot girls, make them friends, and establish yourself as a leader of the group....
Befriending 6-7 hot chicks and establishing yourself as the leader requires strong social skills. This isn't something the average student can do without a lot of bar/club time during the summer.
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...During the first and second day of college, people will be extremely friendly, because they will be nervous, scared, and anxious of the new environment, the new context in their life....
You mentioned earlier this is time proven. Have you personally done this or are you relying on field experience from other PUAs? Not saying it can't be done. I've seen this article before. And it rings of armchair hypothesis. ie, this is all VERY plausible. Has it been done reliably by multiple individuals multiple times at multiple univertsity locations?
I'm asking because we have a LOT of highschool and college age students of seduction on the forum. The majority of us learned seduction after college. We don't have any good first hand advise.
BTW, always liked this article. I'm using it outside of university to construct my social circle. This same method works with regulars at my local drinking establishments.
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Cedar, I can attest to that. During my first few days at university, it's an INCREDIBLY crucial time. This was WAAAAY before I was in the community, by the way. I stepped out of my comfort zone countless times during "frosh week". Hell, I even DRANK... and I practice abstinence STRICTLY. I swore a whole lot. I took my clothes off in public. So did a LOT of the girls. I had never seen so many pairs of breasts at one time outside of a strip club. Apparently a LOT of people got laid during this time too. These girls later retreated into their social circles and became good friends with other people within, and if they weren't in your social circle, you rarely talked to them again. But the people who I interacted with during that crucial first week are STILL my friends to this day.
Man, if I could re-live frosh week again, I'd be on it like a monkey on a cupcake. But I can't... I'm 22 and less than a week from completing all my university studies for my BSc. There are greater things awaiting me.
However, I don't advocate partying all the damn time in college/university. You're there to enrich your education first and foremost. Why pay several thousands of dollars just to meet people and party? Obviously BadBoy is implying that studying comes first but having an active social life REALLY keeps your energy and motivation up.
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I am fortunate that I am of college/university age but not actually at Uni. So I can fit into the college/uni bar scene quite easily. I have very recently made a bunch of friends in a nearby town (Huddersfield) and become a pillar of their social circle. Yes, this is possible, but while it doesn't require PU skills particularly, it does require VERY strong social skills.
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This doesnt requires PU SKILLS, but it REQUIRES Emotinal Intelligence
For some stupid reson, I went to 3 different colleges ( graduated 1, went to 2 more for pure fun ).
Few times me and my friend did this mission of forming social circles, just to have control over HOT chicks on our college.
My friend has no PU skills, just normal cool friendly guy that followed 'our secret plan' .
ok let me correct myself
this REQUIRES BEING SOCIAL, and some normal EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE!
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Lightbulb Everything above is valid depending on the individual.

Your frame is everything that you convey to other people. Pick up skills, emotional awareness... whatever it is that you focus your attention on, that is what will work for you given what it is that you seek to apply it to. Being sociable doesn't mean that you can pick up girls & being a pick up artist doesn't guarantee that you are sociable. When these divisions are removed & the two paths are married into one you have a stronger skillset & your frame will show this with your every action, intention & attention to your surroundings.
All strings to your bow. There are many ways to achieve in any environment. Badboy's way is not the only way, it is another way & it will often prove the most useful for you. Pick up skillsets are invaluable when it comes to being sociable. The M3 model is not all about picking up women for me. I can use elements of it to excel in business. One on one, I have negged every Chairman & CEO I've worked for, not including Savoy. I'm waiting until I get to LA for that one.
A house divided cannot stand. The stronger the foundations a house has the more capable it will be of withstanding chaos. Harlequin is Harmony, I make every new colour I encounter fit somewhere in my patchwork & I do not have time for debate on issues where all sides are valuable. I cannot dismiss a comment above this post. My frame has thrived for too long on diversity & harmony to let chaos inside now. Direct Game, Indirect Game, Etheric/Emotional Emphasis & Mental/NLP/Astral Awareness, Spi-RITUAL success, Surfing on Synchronicity & totally unecessary use of Capital letters, that's what I'm all about. I recall I owned my uni by being at the centre of every party, night, event, cluster-fuck, mosh-pit, society bash I could make time for. Yes, rapport building with individuals leads to the group. Meet the right people, get to the best soial status. This is all valid. Emotional intelligence I believe must mean being aware of the emotions of all people & utilising that consciously to gain the best results.
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Cedar, I can attest to that. During my first few days at university, it's an INCREDIBLY crucial time. This was WAAAAY before I was in the community, by the way. I stepped out of my comfort zone countless times during "frosh week". Hell, I even DRANK... and I practice abstinence STRICTLY. I swore a whole lot. I took my clothes off in public. So did a LOT of the girls. I had never seen so many pairs of breasts at one time outside of a strip club. Apparently a LOT of people got laid during this time too. These girls later retreated into their social circles and became good friends with other people within, and if they weren't in your social circle, you rarely talked to them again. But the people who I interacted with during that crucial first week are STILL my friends to this day.
Man, if I could re-live frosh week again, I'd be on it like a monkey on a cupcake. But I can't... I'm 22 and less than a week from completing all my university studies for my BSc. There are greater things awaiting me.
However, I don't advocate partying all the damn time in college/university. You're there to enrich your education first and foremost. Why pay several thousands of dollars just to meet people and party? Obviously BadBoy is implying that studying comes first but having an active social life REALLY keeps your energy and motivation up.
I had the opposite to you Hysteria. In my 1st few weeks of Uni, most people were very timid and closed. Almost no one got laid. Maybe this is unique to my institution which is relatively small (6000 at the time and nearly 8000 now). Reputation precedes you here, even as early as the 1st couple of weeks. Most people haven't stayed friends with most of the people they met to begin with, and different social circles formed. There are other things going on, which would be worthy of a whole thesis, so wont bother going into them here. You're definitely on the ball with the point on partying- after a while its only counter-productive. btw whats a monkey on a cupcake like!
But I would agree with Badboy, Cedar. Even some AFCs get laid like crazy round here, because of their social status and nothing else. Some of these guys have little to no game, but because they are in the right groups they 'get lucky' as the phrase goes.
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Very good point Eclectic. I suppose orientation activities are different between "party" universities and "ivy league" or distinguished universities. I suppose it's different from city to city, and country to country, as well.
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Same boat as Hysteria. If only I could have had even a BIT of PU knowledge during frosh week, man, it would have been great.
Looking back I got so many IOI's and AI's and all that shit. Luckily I still have a chance and I'm not going to mess it up. But BB is right - social circles are created in the first week of university (frosh week).
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Sounds, good wish I could have tried this when I started college though. The only problem with this tthread of advice is that it caters to a smaller group of puas/afcs (pretty much high schooler afc/puas.) But Im sure an attempt at this can be made during the year, although it would definitely be harder after people have already found and almost cemented their little social groups.
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