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Originally Posted by Starman  As long as you're working close to 70 hour weeks, however, it's going to be hard to have a lot of dates or LTR. I got divorced last year in part due to my time issues which stressed the relationship. I hope your long hours will pay off eventually and can be reduced. |
Anyone here ever run a marathon? I'm training for Grandma's in June. The training schedule is intense. 3 mile runs most days of the week. With a Sunday run anywhere from 10-30 miles. That's the schedule. I simply cannot run a marathon without that much commitment.
What if I don't have the time? I've got a job. A son. School. etc.
If you can't handle the schedule, you need a different goal. You can't run the PUA marathon if you can't put in the time. As humans, we naturally become proficient in what we do. I answer emails 8 hours a day. And I'm damn good at it. Compare this to my natural buddy. He sells clothes to girls at a retail shop 8 hours a day.
Wanna guess who's better with girls? Its the guy who puts in the time.
OK Cedar. I don't have the time to run a PUA marathon. All I got is one night a week. What CAN I do. The PUA 5K.
First, don't limit yourself to night time soirees. I say hi to a lot of new people during the day. I'm not looking for dates. I'm looking to keep myself social.
Second, what's a PUA 5K? If a Marathon is a
Sinn/Savoy lifestyle. The 5K is your ability to talk to beautiful girls, and get a number. Some of those will pan out. Lot of them won't. You'll never be a master if you can't put in the time.
So stop trying to be a master. Get social. Meet new people CONSTANTLY. Keep your interactions short. But keep them coming. And if you can't afford to be hitting the clubs, consider WORKING at the clubs. A bar back job for a few months is a GOLDEN oppurtunity.
Hope that helps those of you who can't put in the time for a marathon.
-- Cedar
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