THE LIBERATION OF THE ALPHA MALES
After using various methods(Mystery method,NLP,
Juggler,Cocky Funny,
Direct Game,etc)i realized expressing my alpha attitude had the biggest and fastest impact on my game and life in general.
Essentially, most methods of seduction involve using lines/routines etc to express to people you ARE ALPHA.
First of all for me, i found that these were qualities that i had, but because of the fact that women tell you to be the opposite, i had locked the attitudes away.
Your personality and attitudes are the BASE OF EVERYTHING YOU ARE, every line/routine/method you have learnt/are to learn demonstrates that you are an alpha male.
What is easier and more fulfilling is to actually BE AN ALPHA MALE.
This will make your life more interesting to yourself as well as others.
Powerful men are becoming rarer every single day, with consumerism telling guys what they should do, behave like, look like and do we are creating a society of beta males. We assume unless we have chiseled looks, are over 6 foot tall, have a flashy car, tons of money in the bank, do certain things, behave in a certain way,etc...that we are not complete.
We are becoming obsessed with pornography ,material obsessions, things that we think are necessary for us to live, and having 'ideals' we think we have to live up to. It's a joke for the guys who 'get it', we look around and see pathetic losers everywhere and people afraid to be themselves.
It's time for a change.
It's time to evolve.
THE ALPHA MALE PERSONA AND EVOLUTION
Typical alpha males are the leaders of their group/friends, 40,000/60,000 years ago they were the leaders of their
tribe. YOU are a descendent from a family line that came from all that time ago. That ancestor was powerful and strong enough to survive in a world with conditions against him.
He was strong and smart enough to survive and find a woman/women to reproduce with.
He is the reason you are here.
EVERY SINGLE ONE of your ancestors all the way back from that caveman through all the eras till now have had a child who grew up to have a child and so on to bring you into this world.(WTF am i on about?Hmm...)
Alpha males are interesting and charismatic from the way they appear to others, even when not demonstrating alpha attitudes or body language.
Imagine if someone was to take a picture of you right now, would you fit the description of an alpha male?
Despite the fact that you should let go of ideals and what you think you should look like, it's important to be comfortable with yourself and your style. I can't imagine anyone sane thinking they look good with a scruffy
beard and wearing rags, and i definitely can't imagine that is complying with an alpha attitude(maybe in some instances but f**k that).Standing out and appearing non chalant about your looks, yet still having respect for how how you dress/look is an attractive quality. Vanity is not.
You can either 'force' your alphaness to come forth, or it can naturally become part of you from gaining
confidence talking to beautiful women and hanging with guys and generally having fun and being comfortable with
yourself, obviously the latter is the natural way, but either is the same in the end.
We are constantly evolving.
People are never the same as they were the day before.
They are not the same
person they were 10 minutes ago.
We are constantly progressing.
The key is IN WHAT WAY and HOW MUCH.
WHO ARE YOU?
We are all made of the same organic matter, all of us formed differently.
Imagine if you were to exchange bodies with an alpha male(Brad Pitt/Tom Cruise/Whoever)for one day. They talked the way they normally would, behaved like they would, acted the way they would, etc, like they normally do, but they were in your body. Do you think they wouldn't be able to achieve what they wanted? In the movie Fight Club, Edward Norton plays a typical 9-5 afc guy. Brad Pitt plays super cool mother f**ker, Tyler Durden(a great example of alpha male attitudes, body language and tonality).In the end you find out it was Edward Norton's character doing everything his alter ego(Tyler Durden, who in Norton's characters mind is the ultimate epiphany of man)had done that he could have never imagined having the confidence to do.
To some he would appear the typical shy, slightly geeky 'boring loser 'that walks to work in the morning and comes home to his 'nice' flat, has a beer and stays there till he falls asleep and does exactly the same the next day.
To others he is the cool, charming, charismatic guy that does what he wants when he wants, is entirely
comfortable with himself, and lives in 'his world'.
The things is....he's the same guy.
There was a documentary on about a wolf pack(i'm getting totally random now)which had around 6 members. There was an alpha, and the rest were omega males and females(beta).
The omega male was the alpha males brother, but did not have the commandeering attitude necessary to lead the pack, despite the fact that it he was much larger than his brother, and could be the alpha from his dominating size. When he walked alongside his alpha brother, he would actually 'crouch' to the point where his chest was dragging along the floor to respect the alpha and not to challenge it's authority.
Guys do this,even when not necessary, at some point in their life and do not break out of it, holing back physically and emotionally. At the end of the documentary, the omega male rose to position of alpha male.
That's the problem with a lot of guys, they never rise to take the position they could.
BODY LANGUAGE
Essentially body language is the foremost form of displaying that you ARE ALPHA.
Communication through spoken words plays a much smaller part, but is still vitally important. That's what Mystery Method(or whatever chosen method)is for.
BODY LANGUAGE OF AN ALPHA MALE- SLOW RELAXED WALK/MOVEMENTS
- Open/relaxed body posture, the opposite of introverted posture(closed arms, hunched shoulders,etc)
- Not twitching/smiling too much/fidgeting/looking down or away/slouching,
- Proud confident walk, slightly cocky walk,
- SLOW RELAXED WALK/MOVEMENTS
- Confident smile
- Legs apart
- Feet grounded(front and back of feet)
- Never look down
- Strong presence
When walking you want your head and neck to be straight, as well as you back, and your shoulders to be relaxed
and down, which will puff your chest out. With every step you take you should clench the butt cheek of the leg
you are stepping forward with(until it becomes natural)and you want your 'centre'(your abs/stomach)to be held in and tight, but not to the point where it becomes uncomfortable.
I'll get into more thorough/detailed body language when using game/picking up another time, but these are general rules on alpha body language for your everyday life, and should be applied(if not already)until it becomes natural.
Some guys just have the look of an alpha male without needing to show it through body language(muscle men)
It DOES help to fit the appearance of an alpha male, and any guy can improve his physical attributes at the basic level. Obviously you can build muscle mass through working out, but i found losing weight was a much easier way to get the 'muscle look'.
Shifting the fat on your body takes away the 'cushioned' look and reveals the muscle, even if your on the leaner side in terms of muscle mass. THEN you can work on improving your size. I don't have time to go into a full workout regime, but there are loads out there(my exercise and workout regime is based on a book called 'Burn the Fat, Feed The Muscle')
Height is another factor alpha attribute, obviously height on the bigger side shows dominance. Simply buying shoes/boots with a high heel can
give you a slight height improvement, and then there's heel raises that you put inside the shoe,whatever. But simply having good posture(posture exercises increased my height from 6"1 to 6"3)will increase height.
Some good films to check out for good body language are..any James Bond film, The Thomas Crown affair, Top Gun and Fight Club among others.
Having confidence to handle any situation, esp. aggressive ones, can be developed through combat training.
If you don't want to go through the trouble of learning a martial art, simply kicking the s**t out of a punch bag is a good way of learning how to focus aggression. Whatever.
I have recommend Krav Maga, a self defence program used by police and military personnel, which focuses on real-life situations, disarming attackers and street fight style defence.
ALPHA MALE VOICE- Your voice(the sound of your voice)is part of your body language too, the words you speak are just another form of communication.
- Listening to guys with alpha male voices, and recognizing the following qualities, will help you to apply them to your voice.(Tony Robbins is an example)
- There is a post on here that describes and tells you how how to get an ALPHA MALE VOICE(name of post)so check that out.
GOOD VOICE QUALTIES:- speaking slow, with pauses creating anticipation
- not saying 'excuse words like 'erm', 'uh', or 'you know what i mean?',and 'right?' at the end of sentences
- not talking in a boring, mumbled voice.
- not talking in a dull, low voice
- not stuttering
- not taking too long to answer questions
- speaking in various pitches(a low voice may sound good, but if there are no fluctuations in your voice you will sound monotone)
- not talking too quietly
MR.NICE GUY
The following is a list of Beta(nice guy/typical guy)attitudes. These are attitudes to identify and leave behind.
- Being jealous(jealousy is showing you are beta and desire qualities that the person you are jealous of has.)
- No confidence
- Not interesting(everyone is interesting, but some don't express it)
- Jerky/fast movements
- Constant smiling/laughing(esp.laughing at your own jokes)
- Always giving excuses('i'm too tired'/'i'm not in the mood'etc)
- Shyness
- No leadership qualities
ALPHA MINDSET
Being alpha IS NOT exactly the OPPOSITE of being beta, but a person with a higher level of value(among other things)than others.
The following is a list of alpha attitudes that a typical alpha has/does...
- Not bragging about girls you've slept with, because the women respect that and it's so much cooler to be nonchalant about sleeping withal girl way hotter than any of your mates have ever dreamt of
- Not looking like a horny f**ker.Sex is between you and the girl. Don't even acknowledge that you want to have sex with the girl until much later. The minute you SAY that sex is on your mind, she will start getting logical('is he trying to f**k me?'i'm gonna look like a slut...')
- Not asking for advice from friends, only on rare occasions(eg.asking a friend where should we go?What should i do about...?)YOU should be the one who makes the decisions and knows exactly what to do(and most of the time you probably will/do but say something like 'i don't mind...' or something similar)
- Not startled by shit tests/rude remarks, or people trying to dominate you through insults etc Talking to guys in logical ways.Talking to girls in emotional ways.
- Taking the lead(in MM in particular, there are certain instances where the girl feels she is taking the lead, but really you are the one in control of the situation.)Take the lead in all situations, an alpha male is the ALPHA MALE OF GROUP, you should be the one who makes the decisions, stands up for your friends etc(but not to the point where you are too controlling
- Doesn't need to impress with material items, it is as though you are trying to prove you are a man/buy womens affections. Don't buy people gifts unless they have EARNED them
- Having authority(this one is VERY IMPORTANT, in every aspect of a pickup to a relationship. An example is simply having the confidence to SAY 'NO'. She will give you much more respect for being YOUR OWN MAN. why would you put someone else's interests before yours...but remember not to over do it, just if she wants to go see a chick flick or something and you don't, whatever
- Being passionate about interests, hobbies, work etc. You should always look at the good in things. If you have to paint you entire house, or doing something you have to do bit don't want to etc, having an upbeat attitude about it is much more appealing than whining an complaining about it, and displays you role as a leader. The reason girls are attracted to rich men is not just the money but the strong desires and passion they have to get that far.
- A guy who has earned his role as a power/rich guy is much more attractive to a woman than a guy that just wins the lottery.
- Being spontaneous
- Taking up space with your body, leaning back, spreading yourself out,not pecking/leaning in etc
- Has strong eye contact,hardly ever looks down. When you are the one talking, strong eye contact is essential, when someone else is talking, less eye contact displays a strong authority(but not in a way that makes you look shy or rude)
- Has a polite an calm authority rather than aggressive
- Is calm under pressure
- Is uninterested in cool things(stays calm, doesn't start screaming like a girl when he sees a cool car etc),especially girls. Why should you be interested?You've seen it an one it all before....
- Is uninterested in what others think
- Doesn't need to be aggressive, or even hurt another person to please himself or show dominance
- Has the power and confidence to do WHAT HE WANTS, WHEN HE WANTS
- Has positions of power(even just helping teaching people at classes in..(whatever, apparently Mystery even brings girls to his boot camps demonstrating authority and leadership qualities)
- Rewards people for generous actions and compliments
- Makes people feel comfortable in your presence
- Has mind set that women are trying to impress you, and that you are the catch
- Not letting others dominate or affect YOUR REALITY.(In other words, if another PUA or an AMOG tried using AMOG tactics/lines on you, you would just blow them off, no one should affect your reality in a negative way...the trick is not to care)
- Not afraid to kino(it's awkward for a woman when a guy touches her LOOKS and what he's doing, it should be done naturally)
- Strong desires and emotions....(Women aren't just attracted to rich men for their money, it's also an indicator of a strong desire for achieving)
- Never laughs at own jokes(or at least till other people start laughing)
- Always leans back
- Is interesting
- Never gives excuses
With having an alpha attitude, you may seem to be an extremely strong person, and some may be shy/nervous around you, much like when talking to a celebrity/rich business man etc, but the thing is you will end up getting ore respect if you are actually a nice,cool guy to talk to, rather than it being the other way round an appearing geeky an actually being cool.
"SELF IMPROVEMENT IS MASTURBATION. NOW SELF DESTRUCTION...."
'Fight Club'. Watch it. First of all, apart from the main character Tyler Durden being a great example of of Alpha Male body language, tonality etc, it's also a great example of how consumerism has us trying to reach ideals of what we think we need to be complete. Although i don't recommend starting fist fights with friends(unless drunk)or 'blowing up a piece of corporate art', realizing that you do not need to look like 'that Calvin Klein ad' or have 'perfect boy band hair' to be accepted or even feel good about yourself is important. Relax. Dress interestingly but also feel comfortable with what you're wearing. Why try to fit in and let people tell you how you should look. Funnily enough not giving a f**k about 'fitting in' works in your favo(peacocking)Alpha males do this. They wear stupid s**t and loud clothes(then beta guys copy it...think pink shirts). I am not saying not care about your appearance, dress like a slob, etc, but that letting go of 'ideals' is the way to go, you are you, it is your personality, attitudes, etc, that define you.
That's all i have to say....for now.
But i'll leave you with some kind words from your friend Tyler Durden...
"If you are reading this then this warning is for you. Every word you read of this useless fine print is another second off your life. Don't you have other things to do? Is your life so empty that you honestly can't think of a better way to spend these moments? Or are you so impressed with authority that you give respect and credence to all who claim it? Do you read everything you're supposed to read? Do you think everything you're supposed to think? Buy what you're told you should want? Get out of your apartment. Meet a member of the opposite sex. Stop the excessive shopping and masturbation. Quit your job. Start a fight. Prove you're alive. If you don't claim your humanity you will become a statistic.
You have been warned.......Tyler"
Bye.
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The Liberation And Return Of The Alpha Male 
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