I've done this many times and it can be done in a lot of different stages...attraction, comfort or seduction...just depends on how you play.
Me: Are you competitive?
Her: yes!
Me: Ha aight well lets play a game but I'm gunna tell you rite now I don't take it easy on girls
Her: oh yea…blah…talks crap
Me: Okay well …this girl taught it to me and since then she is the only person to ever beat me at it and since then I've never lost.(if she jumps at the chance she is somewhat agreeing to qualify herself). You wanna try your hand?…but I'm warning you…I'm unstoppable..i know the secret to winning.
Her: bring it on..blah blah
Me: Okay you've probably played this before but I learned with different rules so you have to play with my rules okay.
<Okay heres a link to the basic set up to how you play. this is a link from wedding crashers but i'm gunna add some rules>
YouTube - Hand Slap Game
ME: You play like penalty kicks in soccer. The person with their hands on the bottom(palms up) is offense and the person on the top(palms down) is on defense. if you are on bottom (offense) you get one chance to slap the top of the other persons hands…if you hit the defensive persons hands you switch and the other person has one chance to hit your hands…if they miss you win. If they hit you switch and start over. (Now here is the rule that makes the game worth playing for pick-up.) Tell her that you aren't allowed to look down at the hands that’s cheating.( she will be forced to look at your face). And another rule..if you are on offense left hands can only slap her left hand and same for the right hand…that is just to make the game winnable.
Her: okay lets play
Optional
<I mean I made this up…but it sounds plausible and that’s all that matters…but…you can tell her
Me: I'll give you a hint….this is not a game about reflexes…it’s a game of attraction...I'll tell you why after I beat you…(with a smile of course) >
Okay pick up strategy during the game
While you are on offense you can mess with her a lot. The key is to try to build up tension so take your time when you are on offense...You can tickle her hands and flinch like you are about to slap….you can just scare her by saying her name suddenly really loud and then slapping. You can continue a conversation or you can start flirting with her before you slap like…"you know..you have such...pretty…slap!…eyes…too bad you suck at this game" it almost works like a neg…or you can talk shit…which is always fun.
The best part is that…since she can't look down at the hands…she will be forced to look at your face…which will give you a chance to look deeply into her eyes.(triangular gazing…I think its where you look at her left eye then right eye then her mouth.)If she's attracted to you she will probably hold eye contact and if she's not, just keep going for the eye contact..thats why you have to keep trying to build up tension...it will get her into it more and she will start to focus in on your face...thats when you start luring her in with your eyes. You can also slow down your tickling into more of a sensual hand rubbing. and if can read her facial expressions enough you can just pull her in for a kiss.
You can hit her with the" you're looking at me like you want something….do you want to kiss me?" really slow and seductive if she says "no" say…I didn't say you could…and slap her hands really quickly and laugh like it was all a trick just to get her mind off the game.
While you are on defense I would just say..don't let her faze you too much with the same tricks you are pulling on her…but at the same time..show a little disappointment when she slaps you…just so she feels like you are into it as well. Make sure you keep smiling to keep it playful..ha don't make it look like you are actually trying hard to beat her. That will keep you looking confident. If she's looking into your eyes while she is on offense You can say stuff like "hey now don't get any ideas…you can't seduce me into losing…that was my plan" And last of all….guys…make sure you win lol…sorry…anyway…if you want at the start you can place a bet on the game to make it more interesting.
Now after you hopefully win if you chose to use the optional comment above you can say
Me: I told you this is a game of attraction…you've gotten closer to beating me than anyone has ever gotten…but I won because I was able to control my attraction to you just enough to focus on the game and win. But I thought you had me for a second there.
<then I would suggest immediatly hitting her with the "man your hair smells good routine and go for the kiss either on the lips or the cheek…that way she won't start feeling any kinda way about losing the game>
<You should experiment with this…I like saying it like this because you do admit that you are attracted to her…but you also "prove" that she is more attracted to you…let me know how it goes for ya..if nothing else it can just be a fun game to play and get some
kino.