A Correct Number Close Frame

[Kino5000]

Obviously don't try to get a girls number or text her.

I'm on my iPhone so forgive me for the text. I was in ocean beach yesterday sitting where people wall by or come and sit, ducking with my phone . And this hippie girl came and sat in proximity. I opened and fucked around with her for five minutes. Really really cocky funny tone using mystery style outline. At the end I asked her the good old, what steps can we take to continue to this? And then she waited for me to suggest something. Then this came to me:

"well I don't want you texting me do I ? And if I call and you don't answer, I'm not gonna leave a message. So give me ur email I guess"

I remember in David d's DYD it says to always go for the email as opposed to the cell #. A lot of recent stuff advises to get numbers. And that's understandable since dyd was written in 2002 and there was only email, aim,
or cell. So aim like died then chics stopped using email when myspace came out. But now it's like career suicide to mention myspace. And with modern
phones, receiving email is just like texts. But without the creepiness of texting. Let her suggest it would be easier to text. Then say something strong like only
wimps (or schoolgirls) text. I'll call you though when I'm not busy . It keeps your frame strong, funny, and qualifying .

You guys really helped me with my a1 beach inquery. Thank for the privelege of letting me share my point of view. Let's party if you're in San Diego...Kino

[golander]

Kino,
Whatever works for you is great. If you like emailing and its working for you themn by all means. However, I feel I would be doing you a disservice if I didn't tell you this. Don't give up on texting! Texting is way more popular than emailing in todays day and age. I don't know where your reluctance to text comes from but you really should consider it. All those "schoolgirls" who only text is pretty much any girl from 18 to 25 and alot of older ones too. Now a phone call is the best policy in some cases but alot of girl like texting more then talking on the phone anyways. Its a great way to build some value (dont build too much over text) and have some fun. Plus you can take as long as you want to reply so if you need to you can think of something good. Also be aware that David D in DYD (which I have read) says that when you get her email its natural to add "and write your number down there too". Email is a good substitute for a number in some situations but it sounds like you are condemning text messages completely. Read text game basics by braddock and savoy in the phone and text game forum for more info on how useful it can be.

Golander