Where do I pick up?

[Tempus X]

Okay, this has always confused me, so I'm gonna ask for help.

Let's say that you go through all of attraction with great success and a good amount of comfort. I'm talking you've kissed, held hands, talk about all things sexy and good in the world. You know what I mean.

Now let's say that, due to logistics of both people, neither have been able to meet up again for a few weeks (perhaps even a month). When you two *do* eventually meet up again (say about 3-4 weeks), do you run through a quick little attraction phase again and then slowly escalate through comfort again, or do you automatically go back to C2?

I've chatted with her online and had a phone convo or two, but that's it. It's been about two weeks since I've last *seen* her, and while I'm gaming other girls, I actually have... ::gasp:: feelings for her.

::takes cold shower::

Nope, still there.

I'd appreciate any and all discussion on this matter since I know that attraction can wane over time, so times like this are kinda annoying when nothing can be done about it (by logistics, I mean we're in different towns). And perhaps a spot of advice on what I would do in such a situation. I've been stuck in this situation a few times in the past already, so I'd like to get some input.

[DeadEyeDick]

Can you say a little more about exactly what happened?

I'm confused about where things were left, why you were back in touch again, etc.

(PS: Don't overthink this chit too much.)

[Tempus X]

(PS: Don't overthink this chit too much.)

LOL, alright, I'll make sure.

The general question is:
When you're out-of-contact with a woman, do you start off exactly where you left off or do you go through a mini-attraction phase to warm up and then continue into comfort?

Specific question:
Without overthinking it, attraction is mutual between us two. When I'm in town, she's gone. When she's in town, I'm gone. This will probably keep happening until mid-August. When the time comes when we're *both* in town, where in this MM model am I? Given that we physically parted on an awkward term (friend of mine was being a douche that night and made her feel like a slut, so I didn't feel right kissing her again), but then we wound up chatting a bit on Facebook and awkwardness is gone.

Damn, I hate writing my specific stuff up on the forum. It makes me wonder if one day someone's gonna print it out and flag it in my face IRL. lol

[Silvers]

if its been a few weeks you will need to ramp up attraction a bit, again. it shouldnt be hard.
The most important advice i have, is when you see her you need to kino right away, at LEAST a big hug, it will set the tone for the rest of your interaction. If you dont bring back that 'sexworthy' frame right away there is probably a chance you will be LJBFed since its been so long.

[Tempus X]

The most important advice i have, is when you see her you need to kino right away... [or] you will be LJBFed since its been so long

Thanks Silvers! Yeah, I still haven't seen her (we live an hour away from each other during weekends and she goes home every weekend which makes it 3 hours...) Do I have a second "yes" on this advice from anyone?

Everyone, please keep your input coming. This is a sticking point of mine and I'd like to get it handled once and for all.