The only DHV you'll need....

[HeretoLearnbaby]

Same here.. I mean there is just too many AFC's hitting on the target all day long and by the time you show up to try and DHV they're like -yawn- (in some cases) but if you show up and make fun of them or tease them they're like. "This is different"

Agreed!

Example cute secratary, in my job I haveto communicate with lots of them all day. So one day I flipped a switch instead of the usual "Hi how are you doing today?" I go up to her and say "Hey, that guy told me to come see you, I don't really want to, he told me to" - that got her attnetion.

Another time I was making a delivry, and outside a girl was washing her car. She smiles and nods and I say "Hey, my truck is next" - she jokes back. I go inside and come back out, then I say "DO you have to be cute to work here?"

"No" she says

"Oh ok.. then maybe I shouldn't apply."

she laughs ect.

I was nervous as I was sayin this stuff but just trying to build my calibration and kill the approach anxiety so far so good. love using cocky funny cuz for the most part it always works.

[Smilie]

Here is something I am curious about. Do most AFCs never tease woman they are trying to game? I dont know about this from personal experience because my problem with women was more of a case of being shy rather than being rubbish. Whilst I dont think teasing is as important as the original post suggests I am interested in the different ways AFCs and PUAs use teasing.

[LNuevo]

Originally Posted by Smilie

Here is something I am curious about. Do most AFCs never tease woman they are trying to game? I dont know about this from personal experience because my problem with women was more of a case of being shy rather than being rubbish. Whilst I dont think teasing is as important as the original post suggests I am interested in the different ways AFCs and PUAs use teasing.

From experience as a bAFC and teasing girls, you do it from a place of... insecurity almost and they pick up on this and they politely jest along but they are not attracted to you. Also if you are a chump you will tease too hard and not be funny enough and this will offend them and make you look like a jerk (an unconfident jerk though)

I have a question though. If you rely heavily on teasing to generate attraction/ convey your own interest would you have to balance it out with a lot of raport building/ comfort building?

[Smilie]

Exactly. This facination with teasing from the original poster seems a bit strange. Hes says he get more sucess from teasing than any other technique. How does he measure success? I doubt anybody who thinks teasing is a major tool can be measuring success through any form of close. Its school boy sarging.

[The_Law]

School boy saring? LoL. Why feel the need to tear down the original posters post? Id give you a warning if I was a Mod and in a generous mood. Lol. Own yourself, not the world.

El nuevo, you are clearly trying to learn, but are confused some. Dont loose faith in banter, just keep learning and developing yourself.

[ooranos]

Oh shit I can just tease and thats the magic bullet.

Worst of. Fail.

[Smilie]

Originally Posted by The_Law

School boy saring? LoL. Why feel the need to tear down the original posters post? Id give you a warning if I was a Mod and in a generous mood. Lol. Own yourself, not the world.

El nuevo, you are clearly trying to learn, but are confused some. Dont loose faith in banter, just keep learning and developing yourself.

You are completely right. I was harsh. It is comedable that the original poster is trying new techniqes and getting out there. After all, you learn through experience. Well done.

[LNuevo]

Originally Posted by The_Law

El nuevo, you are clearly trying to learn, but are confused some. Dont loose faith in banter, just keep learning and developing yourself.

I think you misinterpreted my post, I was saying that teasing works well with the right confidence and attitude. (ie its how its said more than what is said).

[Gullick]

Good topic, i was looking for something like this to help me out and i do agree, teasing is great. But i've never tried it in the day, so I dunno how that would go down.
I think the 'attitude' thats been mentioned a few times that you need when teasing is 'I'm having fun, im going to jokingly put you down, im not serious and im not going to be too concerned at the reaction you give me afterwards.'
When i was completly AFC, i didnt tease, i just kept trying to go straight into rapport (got me a lot of 'friends'...yay), but my take on Smilies question about how AFCs tease, is that i think they're too worried about how the girl is going to react to the teasing 'Please laugh when i offer to high five you and more my hand away at the last second, im not being mean honest'

[Gair333]

and thats why you have a fat kisd as your avatar nah i'm teasing.

see dead easy. The thing is teasing is part of a larger section yoju should be focusing on: Being fun and interesting. sure teasing is fun and an important tool, but playing silly little games, throwing rocks at strangers, waving at passers by etc are also great.

Be a fun guy and she will be attracted to you. I never tell stories as i find them boring to memorise and spill out like a script, same with the cube routine and other longwinded pick up things so i leave them out, if im not having fun telling them why should she get enjoyment from listening? oh i dropped another big thing "vibing" or frame control but thats for another post.