Hey guys! Since I'm new to the forum, I thought I'd share the game plan that works for me. But we all know that what it all comes down to is calibration, sub communication, your own feeling etc. That being said, here goes:
I like to start the conversation with a canned opener, and i tend to use the jealous girlfriend. Why? - Well, I've grown accustomed to using it, and I have also had a similar experience, so it works well for me. Now, here's the point: Right after the opener and before a transition, I neg the target with the "strange hands" neg. (To target: "Wow, look at those hands! Have you ever seen such hands on a girl?" etc.) So far, this is the only attention the beautiful target has gotten from me so far. While still talking to the obstacle, the target will almost always ask me what's wrong with her hands. Turning to the target, smiling, I ask for her hand. -Now, I'm also testing for compliance, but I will take her hand even if she was not going to give it to me.
Next, examining her hands I'll say "Interesting.." and throw her hand away while at the same time re-engaging the obstacle. Curious target will now ask me what I find so interesting about her hand. Depending on how much compliance I feel I have, I'll decide whether or not I bust on her one final time, before locking her in with a prop. I then like to keep her waiting for quite a while, while I at the same time IOI the obstacle quite a bit. If done right, the target will after a while ask about her hands again, and when she does, I excuse to her friends for her pushiness, and ask the group for permission to isolate. Now, finally, I'll never let her know the secret (or maybe I will, but not at first anyway), always losing the track by multiple threading etc. This will keep her hooked and interested.
The secret, if t must be revealed, is the finger length routine. It states that you have a great temper etc. if your indexfinger is longer then your ring finger or something. Not sure to be honoust.
