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Old 07-14-2008, 07:44 AM
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Default Funny Talking but no touching......argggh.

Hey guys. I got a question.
Yesterday i had a date with a 8/ 8.5....amazing body. It lasted more than 3 hours. The start was difficult, cos I wasn`t in the mood for teasing, neging...but after an half hour I could frame the dialogue and sometimes it was on. A great ice breaker was the palm-reading. She didnt believes in such things, but I said some true stuff and she got crazy. But I never got kino from her. I touched her very often, not needy, just because I was in a good mood. She never refused it but didnīt escalate physically neither. Her pupils were the whole time very bright/ open. she was interested, but I didnīt know how to escalate. I didnīt want to use the trust test until she touched me at least once by her own. 2 hours after the date she sent me an email, that she checked in the internet what i said about palmreading. She said i was right and that its funny I know such stuff.
Right now I donīt know where Im standing. For sure I wanna avoid the friendshipzone. I wanna get laid, maybe she could become a girlfriend, but first of all she needs to escalate. How? More negging, more IOds, although she doesnt come out of herself? more DHV? ....and if how exactly? I also donīt understand her email. Why the fuck is she checking what I said. What to do next...date her and do what. The best thing would be, if she comes to my place and we cook, but Iīm not sure, if she agrees. Furthermore i need to know where Iīm at to ask her the right way? or just go for it?
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Old 07-14-2008, 04:22 PM
 
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OMG, there's IOIs all over the place. You fucking got her and you worry???!!!

She even fucking checked what you said about palmreading and TEXTED you!! He pupils were wide! She didn't mind you touching her!

If you didn't feel you got the right rapport from her then don't fret. Many girls give passive IOIs. She most propably is one of them. Hell yeah, she is!

Next time you meet her, just know she is into you. Just don't force it. Keep up the game. If you want to fuck her and don't want to be in a LTR with her, you gotta escalate with her, like you said. But it's not on her terms.

If you want a LTR, just do what you did until now.

How to handle such a girl like her? Get her through many venues. Change locations slowly to more intimate ones, naturally. You'll kiss her sooner than you think. She'll come to your place. Don't think too much about what she thinks. You don't give a fuck. You know she wants you. Be confident, man!


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I didn't give you explicit manual because I don't think you need it. I think you just have to adapt the state of mind I want to show.
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Old 07-16-2008, 11:50 AM
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Thx for your props!

I will see how far I can get.
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Old 07-16-2008, 11:16 PM
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Well...I phoned her yesterday to set up a date for next week. She didnīt answer. SOme hours later she sent me a sms, asking me, if I wanted something special or I just call her for talking.
Right now Iīm turned off. I donīt know what to do. I donīt wanna give her too much power, what I do by thinking a lot now. Whatīs the right mindset.
I will see her next monday anyway, cos thereīs a groupmeeting. But I wanted a date for next week, cos in that groupmeeting there is no good talking possible, maybe I can make her jealous. What can I answer...a sms or Phone her again to set up the date?
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Old 07-16-2008, 11:23 PM
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1) Buy Magic Bullets
2) Go Fuck Ten Other Women
3) You'll know what to do with this one.

that order.
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Old 07-17-2008, 07:01 AM
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1) Buy Magic Bullets
2) Go Fuck Ten Other Women
3) You'll know what to do with this one.

that order.
Well dude, I see u already got 2 warnings, so I donīt know about ur advises. But anyway Iīve already set up the date! Yes baby.
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Old 07-17-2008, 07:35 AM
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As for that mindset, go in with two ideas in mind.

+ I know beyond a shadow of a doubt that she wants me, and she's cool, but I'm gonna play around with just *how* much she wants me.
+ She's my bratty little sister who my mom made me take out tonight for some quality time.

Both of which you add an element of playful to make it all good (if you're thinking the latter one and you're NOT smiling, then you're either taking it too seriously or you're a terrible older brother

I've used these two in the past week and I'm doing a LOT better soaking these into my subconscious.
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