Practical Attraction Material

[SiliconMagician]

Okay, I've been sitting here scanning this thread and this is in the ADVANCED TECHNIQUES section and mostly I see a bunch of 'Here is my new DHV story, any ideas??" and I see alot less of practical technique. So I'm going to place some shit thats actually been tested in the field alot to help out. I did make a post in the openers thread yesterday with some prime, field tested shit, here's something for attraction.

DHV #1: The girl asked me to buy her a drink.

"You'll never believe what happened to me earlier tonight, I walked up to the bar to get me a drink and some girl, without saying hi, without saying a word, MIMED to me(mime a drinking motion) to buy her a drink. Well, look guys, I'm not the kind of guy who just goes around buying random women drinks, so when I run into this situation I like to have some fun, so I walked over there and put on my sleeziest act, and leaned in(lean in and role play the scenario out with her as if SHE was the one who asked for the drink) and said "Whatcha drinkin?" to which she responded, "Captain and Coke", and I said "Ahh, I see, thats nice, but I don't like rum and coke. I'll take a budweiser instead sweetie, since you were so nice to offer."

"No, I was asking you to buy ME a drink", she said back to me and I was like "Nah..I only do that for my friends."

I've used this story mass times when girls ask me to buy them drinks and it gets the message across FAST, that you aren't that type of guy and they always buy their own drinks. Alot of women will start to feel a little embarrased that they approached you for one in the first place and try to make up for it, others just split when they realize you ain't buyin them anything and those are the ones you don't want to mess around with anyway IMO.

DHV #2:Kissed wrong girl my mistake

"Hey guys, listen to this, I was supposed to meet a girlfriend of mine here earlier tonight for a few drinks, so I walked in and saw her sitting with her back to me at the bar. I snuck up behind her, wrapped me arms around her and gave her a big kiss on the cheek, well she turned around...and it wasn't my girl, it was some woman I never met before in my life!

Well I stammered out an apology, I said "I'm sooo sorry, you look just like my girlfriend" to which she started yelling at me in front of the everyone, the whole bar just stopped what it was doing and was staring at us. When she was finally finished, standing there with her arms on her hips and her eyes full of hate, I simply looked at her and said "Wow.. you even SOUND like my girlfriend!"

This is a BIG DHV because it shows you can handle IMMENSE social pressure that most guys would just crumble under. THe idea of an ENTIRE BAR of people staring at you waiting for your response from such an untimely mistake, and that response being cool and funny really makes you look good.

DHV #3: The Puppy

Now I took this one from a post here and I don't know who it was, so whoever posted about "the puppy" story I wanna thank you, it's real gold. Here's my version:

"Wow, I had a REALLY wierd day today, I ran into an old girlfriend I hadn't seen in years, and she invited me back to her house to "hang out"(use your fingers to make the quotes, they will understand and laugh) well, I got over there, and she had the cutest little puppy I ever seen. Just a little ball of fluff running around with this goofy grin on his face. Well I liked him right away, and I think the feeling was mutual. Anyway.. As I was leaving I went to give her a kiss goodbye, the little guy ran right under my feet and out into the front yard and as he's headed out there I see a car coming down the street(this creates tension they know whats going to happen but they don't wanna hear it, drag it out a little bit to increase the tension) I see the puppy heading towards the street, the car coming down and sure enough, boom! The puppy gets hit and tumbles into the gutter and just lays there, not moving or anything.

Well my girl just freaks out and collapses right there on the floor crying, so I ran out to the street as fast as I could, I got up to the little guy, got on my knees and I'm almost in tears about this poor puppy. I reach out to pick him up and just as I touch him...he jumps up shakes off and runs around me barking as if nothing had happened. (BIG emotional release here) wanting to play.

The funny part is, now she's on the whole "My hero!" mode, and I didn't really do anything, but I'm gonna take the credit anyway!"


This story is one of the best DHV stories I've ever read or used in the field. It has ALL the elements necesasary for a BIG DHV, it shows you are a sexual being, it shows you are vulnerable and caring, and that you have a big heart as well. Need I say more?

Anyway, I hope this is a breath of fresh air for some of you guys who come here looking for knowledge and instead finding "theory", frankly I'm SICK to death of "theory" I wan't practical application. All these are stock routines I use and are field tested to the max.

Have fun!

SM

[Display MOB]

Thank you good sir I really like the second one!

[kicknitinkc]

I like all of em. Thanks bro, good shit. I love the first one because I run into that all the time. I'm definitely going to use the puppy DHV. You almost had me crying.

[LiquidFlow]

Thanks for these. They sound good. As an aside, I agree that too much theory clouds the sets.. theory you take in once and get it down then it's all practical application from then on. Theory explains why. Practical examples show how.

[The One Self]

My issue with the second one is that your talking about a current girlfriend which might make some girls think your off the market and look elsewhere, perhaps you might want to tell this story in past tense.

I really like the drink one and I will use it thanks

[SiliconMagician]

Ya know one self, you bring up a valid point.. its never seemed to be an obstacle though.. I make it pretty clear I date multiple women, and that I'm not locked down with any one particular girl anyway, and frankly dude, I'm sure you know that if a girl likes a guy, she'll screw over another girl(as long as they arn't friends, but sometimes even then) to get a really choice guy.

I'd much rather look preselected by other women, and take a chance, then look like someone who doesn't have a girlfriend at all. Hell, compared to some of the other crazy tactics I've heard of, like spraying a little womans perfume on and if asked what your wearing say 'nothing' lol.. or leaving a victorias secret bag lying around in a corner somewhere, or a bunch of pictures showing the PUA with alot of beautiful women.. I think looking preselected is pretty important to the game.. so I try to show that.

If you have a better suggestion on how to still show preselection in the story, without looking so unavailable I'm more than open to it.

SM

[The_Jedi]

Don't call her a "girlfriend." Call her a lady friend or woman friend. Notice the spacing between the two words in the last two.

[Mooks]

He did say "a girlfriend of mine" -- and it was a kiss on the cheek anyways...

You could always say it was a "close work friend of mine". and then later when you say "I'm sooo sorry, you look just like my girlfriend" to the girl in your story, you could say "I'm sooo sorry, you look just like my friend, Sally... it's uncanny!" and then at the end... OMG, you even SOUND like her!

You can use that if you want to avoid the "girlfriend" thing. But the way I see it, if girls can falsely disqualify having a boyfriend, you should be able to casually disqualify yourself by saying girlfriend, and continue gaming with the frame that you do in fact have several "girlfriends". If it does come up, you could just say you have many, and that you aren't quote unquote "dating".

In any event, he's field tested it, and I like it.

[EyeOfSecrets]

One note! never say stuff like "hey guys, you'll never believe this!"

because that is, even if it's not a big one, a DLV. it makes it seem like you are begging for their approval. not a deadly sin though

but when you're telling stories, just tell them and don't make it seem like you're looking for ANY reaction at all.

at best i say "okay, i'll only tell you this if you promise not to make fun of me" in a jokingly manner (considering the story is about something embarrasing you did. telling such stories of you being foolish is looked at as a sign of being secure. in my opinion that is. but don't forget to leave some subtle DHV spikes in, or even add them in another story)

people won't laugh when you tell them they should, but if you tell them that they shouldn't laugh, then you can bet they will

[SiliconMagician]

Originally Posted by EyeOfSecrets

One note! never say stuff like "hey guys, you'll never believe this!"

because that is, even if it's not a big one, a DLV. it makes it seem like you are begging for their approval. not a deadly sin though

but when you're telling stories, just tell them and don't make it seem like you're looking for ANY reaction at all.

at best i say "okay, i'll only tell you this if you promise not to make fun of me" in a jokingly manner (considering the story is about something embarrasing you did. telling such stories of you being foolish is looked at as a sign of being secure. in my opinion that is. but don't forget to leave some subtle DHV spikes in, or even add them in another story)

people won't laugh when you tell them they should, but if you tell them that they shouldn't laugh, then you can bet they will

Oh man, you are sooo right. Thank you for bringing that up! I remember reading about that in an article somewhere a very long time ago, and it seems that your post has jarred my memory. I'll definately be on the lookout, as these stories are my own from my own experience, I can tell them anyway I want on the fly.

Remember though guys, that how it sounds on paper, and how it sounds when I tell it are 2 completely different things. It may not sound EXACTLY like that every time, because every girl is different, and you micro calibrate.

Thanks for all the feedback guys, keep it up. I'm learning alot.

SM