 Help! Thin Line between Love/Hate?
Short version:
My wingman supposedly heard the girl saying she hated me or something. I negged on her pretty hard, cracked a few jokes, did some push-pull and didn't try to close at all. Even as I was leaving I waved and said "nice meeting you guys, bye Mary," haha.
I went from her not giving a damn about me three days ago and totally ignoring me in a conversation with her and one of my friends to taking her off her pedestal last night.
So how do I turn it around?
How thin is the line between Love and Hate?
Any feedback would be great.
Long version:
So I've had my eye on this girl for a while. I was demonstrating social value hanging out around where she waitresses. Her and most of the other waitresses live with each other in the same vicinity and so I made it a point to go out there infrequently with my friends who were friends with either her or her friends who would wait on us. I go up there with another PUA I'd just met who is going to make an awesome wingman and he pretty much kicks back and watches me start with the classics.
I open a set (one waitress and one hostess), start doing the cocky funny thing and demonstrate social value. Posture, hand position, visual cues, everything is spot on. Waitress leaves, hostess sits down. I number close her in less than two minutes and tell her to go find me a lighter. She comes back, I use the lighter, thank her and start ignoring her. I keep working on my third Dead Guy Ale and open another set through the window we're sitting beside out on the patio. Their boyfriend's come back, they weren't that cute anyway.
Finally the cook gets off work, knows my friend, so he sits down, and the three of us hang out for a bit. Hostess comes back and sits down, completely leaving the front of the restaurant unattended to talk to us. Our waitress still has tables but two other waitresses come out about 10 minutes after the cook starts eating and my target, we'll call her an HB9, comes in. She is walking past our table to someone else's and my wingman catches her eye, they say "hey," blah blah blah, hug, "oh this is my friend" and introduces me. I look up from my phone while I'm text messaging and say "oh, hey" and look disinterested. She has to qualify herself to me by saying "yeah, we met a few days ago when I was waiting on you" and I said something dumb like "oh, really?" Etc.
I keep negging on her by calling her Mary instead of Meriam (not in a sarcastic, cocky funny way but in a, you're not really important enough for me to remember your name way, without the arrogance. Every time I said Mary I treated it like an honest mistake but didn't apologize or correct myself).
She sits down furthest seat away from us then leaves, comes back with food and says she needs some table space. I'm nearest the table so she comes and sits next to me, then she moves to the other side of me and starts chatting with some of the other people after she and I make some small talk.
That's really the extent of it. Then again, I was pretty hammered (didn't look it though) so I may have not scrutinized every detail in the context of this situation like I normally do, which can be good or bad.  | 
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