Disqualifying Yourself One of the things I find important is "disqualifying yourself as a suitor". Once the girls sense you are NOT hitting on them, you can do run game with good results.
Think about married guys--u know why they feel they get so much attention suddenly??! It's not b/c women want an easy lay with no ramifications, or want to be a homewrecker, etc. It is b/c the woman sees the ring, knows the guy is not hitting on her (or should not be, theoretically) so she can be more flirtatious. She can even be overtly interested, knowing she does not have to put out. When the man is not in "Hit on her. Must get number. Must get laid" robotic stage, he comes across more appealing to the woman. It's basic (fermale) human nature.
Disqualifying must be done in way that lets you circle back to re-qualifying yourself. I wrote a thread on this a while ago, but this should be more comprehensive. Be gross but not a pig. Act gay, but don't make out with another guy. Be in a relationship, but be ready to say it's long distance or open or whatever. Goal is to get her guard down.
1) Gay. Claiming your gay (ONLY if asked) is a good one. If u are dressed fashionably and NOT projecting interest (kudos is u can do both), you may get the "Are you gay?" question. I get it ALL the timetake it as a major IOI. I simply look at the one who said it and plow through. Never flat out say you're not. Either use one of the many affirmative lines or plow. Revisit later after you have built so much attraction that the only issue is that you don't like women. Make it clear you do and close.
2) Walk up next to the group and blow your nose. I will generally see a group with some real estate at the bar, and approach with a wing.
Face: "Excuse me, can u hand me a napkin, please" as I wedge between target and friend
HBs" "Yes, of course" and one hands me a napkin.
Face: I turn to my wing and carry on some fake conversation form earlier and, while still essentialy in-between the HBs, I blow my freakin nose. Loudly if possible. Double-wipe.....I do not look anyone but my wing in the eye. It conveys that I am very comfortable where I am (as if it were my own living room and al these ppl just happen to be here). It conveys that I am not about to hit on them b/c what guy in his right mind would make himself look so gross before approaching a girl he likes.
......you can even try to hand it to her and say "Hold this for a second" [ BIG SMIRK]. When she balks, look at her in disgust and utter "Prude" under your breath and turn your back on her.
3) Hand one your drink, tie your shoe, and just take ur drink back. Wipe off the rim as if she had drank from it and look at her in disgust. Say some generic banter line like "You girls are all the same" and see if she bites on it.
4) If she is dressed to kill, simply say "Arent we a bit overdressed" or "Laundry day, eh?"
TO disqualify, think of what a guy would NEVER do if he were interested, and consider doing it. Farting or picking your nose is a bit much, but that would work better, IMO, than telling a girl she is pretty or some lame crap.
Try a few out. Add some FIELD TESTED ones only.
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