Emotional Prog Expert, ut Physical Prog. Moron.

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Man, learn how to guage if you’re in Qualification, Comfort, or Seduation phase and then make sure your Physical Intimacy is parrallel to yoru emotional intimacy. I'm the world’s greatest emotiona intimacy person but I'm a moron with physical intimacy. Grow and Expand with Physical intimacy so that it’s running at hte same pace as emotional intimacy.
KEY: Physical touching should be intimate and GRADUAL. there should never be a big awkward moment where shift from neutral to 4th gear and make the “big move”. It has to be smooth and natural.
Know context. Sitting on laps in clubs is normal. doing so in coffee shops is not! It’s endless game!
Learn daygame. If you do that. You’ll have fun during the day.
You have a BIG obstacle with touching! You usually don’t touch dudes, women, anyone. Maybe experiment with some sports or something that involve touching (martial arts, soccer, all those did. Swimming could be REALLY good for this too!)
There are two big type of touching: social and personal. Social is like “pats on the bag, handshakes, etc.” how you would interact with the rest of hte group, but personal is reinforcing intimacy with an emotional connetion you’r making. Like you say a compliment and touch her. This builds comfort and arousal. Your emotional mastery with words combined with personal touching will be deadly!! NOTE: personal is more intimate than social, but both are relatively non-sexual. Personal touching (following your word leads) is the most effective for building comfort. You’re a master at emotional progression so physical progression has the solid foundation to build on!
“Go First” and “Start Early” (really early like in the opener). Touching shows her that touching is normal for you. then she can follow your lead! Sweet. Everyone at every level of horniness is fearful of touching someone, but if you touch first, you give her the “free area” to do more touching. Always look for small opportunities to touch. If you’ve been talkign for 20 minutes, and then try touching it will seem awkward. do social touching in the opener but touch everyone in the group so you come across as SOCIAL, not CREEPY. When people touch each other they will accept what you have to say more.
Keep Emotional and Physical progression congruent, meaning at intro, touchign should be high energy (like a high five), with comfort, it can be more intimate romantic.

QUESTION
HUGE HUGE HUGE!! Test her level of social openniness. Find TONS of other levels of tests!!

• High fives -- likes you if she curls her fingers towards you instead of just slaps hand
• Hands out -- if you ask her to put her hands out and she does so face up, she likes you, if not, she may not yet.

What are some more of these tests?????