The Surrogate Wingman.

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HUGE Solo Gaming;
I'm a solo gamer. I'm NOT the guy women want to meet for a long-term relationship. I'm the type of guy women want to meet for a fUN quality time with great sex. I'm open to LTs VERY OPEN and welcome them, but I have not been that guy and am not. I'm flexbile and highly sexual and move fast and have fun.

Great. But women need to see you with friends so you LOOK like the guy who is a long-term relationship person. Typically guys who roll with a group of friends are the type of guys who have Long-term relationships. (think football jocks who role as a team, they all "date teh cheerleaders" or something as an example). Women want long-term relationships. It's in their reproductive, maternal DNA. They won't trust a solo guy because it looks like he's just looking for sex (which, after my top priority of business in teh club(s), I am).

Solution. Befried a 2-set of guys. Shake hands. Crack jokes. Exchange names, and then chill with them for a bit. Next. Branch out and do your original solo game that you've done 1000s of times. When chicks ask about friends (which they always do b/c they're always with friends), reference or introduce your "just-met" "surrogate" wingman or wingmen. Suspicion problem solved.

I'm extremely well,dressed, clean and know that women are attracted to me. That's great, but the "suspicion" of why I was in a bar alone caused lots of trust obstacles. So this is the best solution b/c I can enjoy benefits of solo gaming (not being pinned down to a group), but appear to have a "surogate" friend-wingman if she inquires.