Inner Game End Game

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I have a perfect 'Attraction" and "Comfort" game. I flirt, convey higher value, neg exquisitely. Chicks have fun, I have fun. There's almost always grinding on teh dance floor. I buy zero drinks for women. There's lots of laughs. Women find me attractive. I retreat off to quiet sections of a club and talk with women all naturally. Again, I have A+ Attraction and comfort game.

My problem is end game. I coast with my success with attraction and comfort game and then typically (this sounds absurd but true ) "forget to close". I forget because of my inner game focus. I try not to focus on end game of sex because if you don't f-close that leads to disappointment. I'm considering shifting my inner game focus to entirely on sex throughout the night of hte bar. That will be my finish line. Problem is feeling discouraged if that isn't achieved. But I think it's best to be honest with myself of my focus. Biz first, then sex.






Notes
Inner Game End-game
I've varied an end-game vision from

"Getting a bj"
pros: will keep you focused on sex.
cons: likely won't happen leading to discouragement
"Hooking up"
same as above
"Just trying to have fun"
pros: good solid goal
cons: if you don't have sex in mind it may not happen, meaning if it's a goal, you might be able to plan for it.

"Just trying to talk to any woman"
"Just getting in the club."


What's the best end-game vision. You should have one.

If I have an end-game vision of sex, you're frustrated when it doesn't (which is practically always) happen.

Just going to a club to bang chicks IS my only motive for going out to bars, period. But music interests are there too.

But if you have an endgaem of just "have fun", sex doesnt happen because you dont' "close sets" get numbers, bounce, make deals, do all that stuff.