HOW TO DANCE WITH ANY GIRL ON THE DANCE FLOOR (feild tested)
Im writing this for two people. First is for the guys who either get rejected all night when trying to dance with a girl and it shoots down their self esteem. And secondly I am writing this for the woman. Who are tired of guys being grabby and sneaking up behind them in a shady way.
Dancing game is something that is a big mystery when it comes to club game. It’s mostly bad lessons that are taught, and then passed down. So you inherit all kinds of mistakes form friends who taught you. Who did not know better them self’s But I am going to give you a step by step break down of how to do it.
Clothing has nothing to do with it. A big problem I see is that people pay attention to clothes way to much. Do you think anybody really cares if you have on a white or black belt? Or what your shoes look like in a dark club? The answer is No. As Tyler Durden says, everyone is too busy being concerned about what they look like them self’s to worry about you! Ironic. The biggest reason clothing is not overly important is because people expect the clothing TO SPEAK FOR THEM or to do the job for them. But nothing is stronger then what you say. Clothes can never replace game. And I have put that to the test many times. Even sometimes in my GYM clothes! Ask my friends, One night we went out to Club Orchid and I was dressed is a wrinkled white t-shirt, and the most pathetic pair of jeans I could find. They were running at the bottom, and had a huge hole in both knees, about the size of a Football, No Joke! And guess what; still effortlessly dance with 3 girls that night just because I was having so much fun in my own reality. Does this guy know how he’s dressed, yes. Dose he care, Heck no. Dancing is so powerful because your actions convey your personality without words. It communicates a lot of strong things. Dancing is so great cause it conveys personality threw body language. It says a lot about a person without them having to say it. It shows if they are strong to social pressure, crowds, if they are sexual and if they are confident with them self.
I think facial expression is important. If you look nervous, you will be shot down. Period. Unless the girl is desperate for a dance, wants attention, already thinks your cute, or doesn’t know how to say NO.
Now for the “how to” part of this report. This is all stuff I backward analyzed from myself and friends who were successful in this area. This will get the a large number of results most of the time. Im just going to cover non verbal stuff, but feel free to throw in some C+F at different points.
Step 1:
Pre Game
If you can say something C+F to a girl when you are outside the club waiting in line all the better. Then break the convo with something like “Maybe if your nice, I let you buy me a drink if I see you inside” In a joking way. Then get back to you friends. Its important to be non-needy
Socialize with everyone, this will help your overall social proof and hep you get in state with out alcohol.
Step 2:
Entering the Dance floor
Before you begin I should explain that dancing game works on a few principles, one of them is the ability to make you self be seen! I once herd someone say in a club there are 2 types of people. The ones having fun, and the ones observing people who are having fun. You want to be the first. So from the moment you step in the room. You might holler out, put you hands up, jam out with your friends. Anything that signals to people you believe the party has NOW arrived. As you enter the dance floor
Step 3:
Doing the tour
Doing the tour is what we call basically 1 big circle around the club. Getting a sense of the atmosphere. What’s important is that you continue this “the party has just arrived” vibe as you circle the room. Never, and I men never, at any time of the night wonder around aimlessly or look lost. Always pretend you are going somewhere. Even if you walk across the room, walk with purpose. Genuinely dance around the club as you do this. Its good to at least have a few 2-step dance moves. Nothing fancy, just something smooth that you can pull out when you need to. 3 dance moves can go far in a club. Think Puffy/Elvis/Mase/ Mick jagger. So as you do you round doing your 2-step. People wll start to take notice of you. You might even get a few A.I.’s ( approach invitations) from girls in the form of a smile, or a glance that is a little too long. Feel free to smile or nod back quickly. The important thing is not notice who notices you. And pay attention to it. If you do this, half the work is done.
Step 4:
The post up
I know some guys will “Post up” near the hallways on the way to the bathroom. I think this is good at number closing time but not so early in the night. I recommending posting up with you friends in a well lit visible area. Like the large speakers in the middle of the floor. Large pillar, or bar if there is nothing else. When I say “Post up” I men standing in a cool way against something, think James Dean style. Now its time to smoothly wild out. Pull out your 2-step, raise you hand when your favorite song come on, show appreciations for the music, High 5’s, what ever man. What’s important here is to genuinely have fun, and if not you facial expression has to look like your having fun. This was actually one of my
sticking points a friend of mine pointed out, and I had to work on my facial expression from saying im nervous, or not in the zone, etc. Now after you do this for a while you have to keep your eyes out for girls that are giving you A.I. and something else called “Proximity Game”. A lot of times a girl that likes you will not directly come up to you and talk or make the move. She will want you to make the first move. So what she will do is just come close enough to you with her friend and dance in your sight. She will make herself seen. I like to wait it out a song or two, so I can see what she’s all about, and then move in.
Step 5:
Once in range
There is one very strong rule. Don’t sneak up behind a girl to dance with her. If you have no gotten A.I. or “Proximity Game” from her first. If you do it, its so bad. It show you like every other guy. But most of all it shows you have a lack of confidence. From her point of view how could she have anything with you, you don’t even believe in your self, and had to sneak up on her S.W.A.T. style. LMAO. Approach from the front or on the side at an angle where she can see you coming. Don’t travel more then 5 feet to her im my opinion. And keep an eye out for what type of music she responds to. If its reggae, chances are you will have more success approaching her on a song she wishes she had someone to dance to with.
So this how you do it. Once you get the A.I. or “Proximity Game” signal, you send it right back in the blink of an eye. Don’t miss a heart beat and return the signal. And 2-step in. Simple right?
But guys someone still mess this up. One mistake is to crowd around a bunch of girls like a bunch of rabid dogs who are just waiting for there chance to jump in a dance. Crowding around the girls until they feel uncomfortable. This is pathetic, and they guys have no power for them self’s. If you dance with a girl in that situation chances are she just feels like she has to dance with you, or she likes the attention from lots of guys looking at her. If my friends and I tend to ignore the stripper types who like attention. We give them what they don’t want. And that’s what stands out. Sometimes girls will even pretend to be lesbians and dance with each other to get guys off. Dudes, she is not trying to turn you on – in fact this means she’s creped out and this is her last defense. Something to look out for once you get good at this social intelligence stuff is being able to tell the difference from the girls who are having a girls night out and don’t really wanted to be distracted by any guys.
Another mistake is grabbing. Never ever grab a random girl with out her giving you a sign.
There’s a lot more that happens when your dancing with a girl to latter in the night when its time for the club to close down. And if I get enough request I will post more about it after. But there’s are the basics.
Montreal Madison 
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HOW TO DANCE WITH ANY GIRL ON THE DANCE FLOOR by Montreal Madison 
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