going to her place not mine

[Nightangel]

there is a lot of material out there for talking a girl home to your place but not so much for convicing her to go to her place



I live about 40 mins driving time from my favourite pickup place
and while there are a few places around region that are nice places to take girl for a date, my pad itself good but location is bad
there aren't many girl who aren't either teenage brats small amount 18 or married

yes i know about picking up up younger women and that women who are 30 have the higher sex drive ok but thats not the problem

it will be a least a year before i can get a cooler closer place so that leaves with a couple of options for nightlife pickups

drive back to my place 40 mins is a long time to hold a girls attention when your driving, 30 mins yes 40 pushing, she feels 'out of place' due to the distance

go to her place, harder to talking a girl into doing this there are tactics but possible

use the car or a couple of blankets in some out of the way place, some chicks are not to hot with this they need a bed but some find it is a turn on as well

use a friends place: possible but harder to make sure its set up good

put off and arrange at date near my place or her place

so basically i'm aiming for her place my usual tactic is to make her as hot as hell and then casually suggest since she cant wait, her place is closer (wihout mentioning i live 40 mins away)


I could use some more suggestions for getting to her place but also if you have anything about the other options suggest

reply add links suggest certain books whatever


thanks

[Paladin]

ok. basically closing at her place is a lot harder, because you can't control the environment. So there is a much higher risk of interuption from housemates, pets, neighbors, kids, a husband, etc. Hence the push to make your seduction location a controlled location. What you need to do, is find bounce locations between your house and your favorite club. You can't depend on her place, but it can happen I guess. If you do go back to her place, it's just more challenging. Do a lot of logistics research early in the night and plan accordingly.

[Fader]

You need to find out the logistics. Who does she live with? Are their pets? If she has roomates are they at home? Does she have a tv / dvd in her bedroom?

[Psych_]

I'm in a similar situation as this guy and I think it's not so much about the logistics but about real plausible deniability...it's a much harder compliance to get.

What are ways of generating plausible deniability to go back to her place?