wat da hell is wrong with my wing? should i find a new one?

[guru]

so my wing is totally different than other people i sarged with. if a place doesnt open up he says they r not open to people. he has belief that people in NJ r not social. so he meets a polish girl and falls for her. he says she passed all his qualification and he wants to take it to the next level. the hb doesnt and they only meet once a month. both live in jersey.they didnt see each other for a while and she went to poland. i told him not to call her, let her call him before she goes to poland. he agreed not to call her but than he still called her. i told him to talk with her before she goes to poland that he wants LTR, because she wont be back for a month. he says he will wait until she comes back, since if she doesnt want LTR than he is defintly out. im like watever. so than he says he wont call her first, she has to when she comes back. she's back and hasnt called him. now he says he will call her next week, cause he wants go get laid. im totally disgusted with his behaviour. he doesnt want to accept that he is becoming an AFC all over again. i dont agree with wat he does or thinks and thats a problem for me since he is my wing. We met through the game, and have become good friends, but his actions are just confusing me. wat do u think?

[_big_pimpin_]

wut do his actions with a polish girl have to do with him being your wing???

[The Fortunate]

Tell him to stop being a pussy and man up. Tell him you wont sarge with him in the losers circle until he can commit again. Don't let him bring you down. He may be your friend but do your part in holding out your hand to bring him back to the winners' circle with you, if he doesn't want to take it, then that's his fucking problem. But definitely don't let him bring you down.

Good luck man!

[GypsyTilt]

Yeah, a bad wing/ a wing that wont go out at the drop of a hat is not someone who is dedicated!

[The Hybrid]

I think it depends on how good of a friend he is to you. I have really good friends and I tried to get them to change but I realized that I couldn't change them. i could only change myself. I even gave one of my friends The Game, he read it, we talked about it alot! I got amped, he didn't. But he doesn't even want to go out and try any of this stuff. I'm still friends with him, and at any point in the future, if he makes the decision to ask for my help, I will help him. I will always hold out my hands, but he's going to have to take them.

That's what I think you need to do. Work on your self and your game.
If he wants to learn he will. Hold yourself with open arms, but reserve you energy for those people you meet that truly want to learn from you.

[GABBO]

Try reverse Pschology on him, it seems to me his ignoring your advise, and doing the exact opposite, so next time you want to tell him something.

You: Hey you should call her b4 she goe's away
Him: are really? I think i should wait till she comes back.

Basically just say the opposite on what you want him to do and he should do the opposite. I'd also recommand finding another wing, or better yet try going out solo.