Transitioning Between Attract and Comfort Stage

[Unit134679]

What flags should I look for so I know when to transition from Attraction to Comfort? To be more specific, the transition between A2 to A3, and from A3 to C1.

[UofA]

Once you feel that you have gotten a few IOI it is good to trasnfer out of attraction phase.

[Seiko]

Look for ioi's .... also specifically the ones that lead into conversations. Is she starting to ask you about personal life? Does she keep the conversation going ?

A good way to test that your done the attraction phase is when you ask a question like 'what degree are you in' and then after she finishes she asks you back. This means shes interested .

[Unit134679]

Ah, what about asking what MY degree is, what I was working on my laptop at the time (a project), and then asking my name? Sounds like a good string of IOIs to me. Appreciate the feedback!

[Seiko]

definitly, next step is number close.

If your at a University you can do it simply like, "so you ever go to the bars?"
"Cool, me too, I have to get back to work but we should party sometime, whats your number?"

Then after a day, txt her and be like 'hey its (your real name) how was the rest of class?' or something like that, then next you can say 'cool, you got msn?'

The reason I like msn or AIM is its really informal way of chatting to people. You can have quick easy conversations, take time to reply to things and its faster than text messaging and less formal as calling.

The key on msn though is have her blocked lots...you don't want to be seen online 100% of the day...appear offline is an awesome function .