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02-27-2008, 04:58 PM
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| | |  When you guys talk about dating more than one girl...
Do you tell both girls (or all the girls involved)... that you are dating other girls at the same time as them? Or they NOT supposed to know that? Haha...
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02-27-2008, 05:43 PM
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Well yes, but you have to put correctly. You can't bluntly say "I am fucking other girls" (of course you can).
You just need to make it abundantly clear that the relationship isn't exclusive.
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02-28-2008, 11:24 AM
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Originally Posted by Alpha Electro  Do you tell both girls (or all the girls involved)... that you are dating other girls at the same time as them? Or they NOT supposed to know that? Haha... | Be honest, don't be a douche and try to hide it from them!
If they're not happy with the situation, then that's their problem.
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02-28-2008, 11:52 AM
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^I thought so. Right on, thanks.
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02-28-2008, 12:51 PM
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No worries
& one more little thing... it doesn't matter if you're "dating" 2, 20 or 200 girls simultaneously, the odds are against you that they will find out about it other... so another reason it's good to be upfront about it.
They are most likely to stick around and put up with it if you are open, honest and upfront about the situation than if they discover that you've been lying to them. Even if you haven't lied to them once, they will count it is lying by ommission or something like that.
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03-09-2008, 04:24 PM
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Originally Posted by TheOC Well yes, but you have to put correctly. You can't bluntly say "I am fucking other girls" (of course you can).
You just need to make it abundantly clear that the relationship isn't exclusive. | Agreed with the above.
The action of saying they ain't exclusive, sounds like instant death to AFCs.
I currently in this situation at the moment, where i didn't say this from the start (Greed & AFC thinking).
Now i'm living a lie & having to be covert all the time. But Its to late now to tell um.
I aint be true to myself. But hey, i'm due for a cull, so bring in the fresh meat!!
Nxt time i'll be honest & tell um from the outset. And I advise you to do the same..
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03-09-2008, 04:39 PM
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Don't ask don't tell.
If she asks, say "yeah i am seeing other people"
Don't give details, don't bring up the conversation, don't ask her if she's seeing other guys. Always assume she is. |
03-11-2008, 01:02 AM
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This is more of a bigger deal when you're starting to date, where she won't let you do certain things unless you bring up being exclusive, being a steady boyfriend, etc.
Sometimes if you say no, she's going to accuse you of being a player and put her ASD up.
The approach can be "what you do when I'm not around is none of my business". If she asks if you're seeing someone, you can tell her that you're just taking things a day at a time because you've got a lot going on.
It's good to date girls that are into different things, odds of being in the wrong place at the wrong time lessen.
I mean, I don't want to know where her mouth has been... I don't think she'd want to know where mine was either,so the less she associates you "seeing other girls" with sex the better. |
04-11-2008, 03:40 PM
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"Yes, I'm dating several other women" is usually my answer. It's the truth (without specifics) and most of the time it makes them want me more. | |
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