Wow I really suck at night game!!! - The Attraction Forums

Charles Ou · #1 (**permalink**) 02-14-2008, 05:23 AM

I turned 18 6 months ago... My day game is really good, I only go out with models and such.... Women say I am very good looking but at night things change... I recieve shit loads of IoI's, AT the bar like all women look at me and at the dance floor all chicks start griding with me out of nowhere, and i get surrounded like 10 chicks.... BUT this enviroment is so frighting for me.. Music is so fucking loud. I cant use my body language. Women feel like a power of fortressssss..... At day all girls are more open, its so easyy.. But at night I sense they are just impenetrable. ( I read Magic bullets, david d stuff, badboy videos, real social dynamics, etc...). Ohhhh, and soon i WILL GO TO THE BOOTCAMP.... I thought I would defeat all at night game, but at the truth i SUCK lolll..

Any advices???? I would like to practice alot b4 going on a bootcamp. NIGHT GAME i mean!!! Clubs and such.

Hadzo · #2 (**permalink**) 02-22-2008, 02:38 AM

heh.. i know what you mean.. i used to be terrified of the clubs.. thank god now i'm extremly comforable, social and fun..

don't go to a club with the intent of hooking up.. this is sarging with intent and most of the time i'll make you overanalyze things and make you not aware of youre body language..

just go out to have fun.. take baby steps.. first time stop at the entrance, talk to the bouncers.. (Social DHV )

walk in slowly, smile on youre face.. if you smoke just ask some girl for a light.. this is a no risk oppener and use it to practice, warm up and to become comfortable.. dance, have fun.. just don't stand around and scan the club for potential victims.. girls will notice this, and more important you'll put pressure on yourself and fuck ure game up..

be peacocked and interesting.. it will give the girls a opener for you..

i too get a lot of IOIs and I'm adapting and evolving my game for the clubs..

Be high energy..

hmm.. this is all just of the top of my head.. i feel for you, and was in a similar position.. the good news is that club game is possible, and not that hard.. just diffrent.. rely more on youre bl and keep in mind that the music makes any normal conversation nearly impossible.. good luck.. just keep on practicing..

p.s. i recommend becoming a regular at one club.. it will allow you to become familiar with the surroundings and this will make you more comfortable..

p.p.s. as far as dancing goes.. i highly recommend it, and just don't dance like a tool.. imagine how a alpha would dance and do that.. get into the rhythm and enjoy ureself.. its also an opportunity to create social proof..

check mehow's stuff.. he has some game adapted to the club with high energy wooohooo openers..

Charles Ou · #3 (**permalink**) 02-23-2008, 12:54 PM

Yeaaa man, but the hottest girls are at the dance floor.... and they keep gridding on me, dancing all close and staring at me. And they are with many friends, how do I take them to the bar and run regular game?? It is so loud at the dance floor, and at the bar are just the not worthy ones!! Please advice

Charles Ou · #4 (**permalink**) 02-23-2008, 12:55 PM

oh and can u link me to mehows stuff please?? thank you

Durk · #5 (**permalink**) 02-23-2008, 01:21 PM

I am opposite actually. I am trying to get good at day game. I think its been because 90% of my social interactions for the last 3 years have been at bars and clubs.
PS after a few months you will somehow be able to understand people over the loud music. It just takes time.

Charles Ou · #6 (**permalink**) 02-23-2008, 02:03 PM

man day game is pretty easy, just say she seems intresting and you want to get to know her better. Then share some stories with DHV, no need to neg, be cf and say you want to be friends. What I do is, I tell them to introduce them to their good looking friends, And say... well lets cotinue being friends but you got 2 options here. We have some "FUN" togheter and you will still introduce me your hot Friends, or we continue being friends and you introduce them to me anyway. And if they deny introducing her friends, say they are a bad friend and you will end the relashionship ( playfully ). THEY WILL ALWAYS WANT TO HAVE FUN LOL. Say its up to you. You will always get sex.

Hadzo · #7 (**permalink**) 02-25-2008, 01:52 AM

I already said that club game is different.. Especially dancefloor game.. Check JTR stuff.. JackTheRIpper, he is here on the forums.. He has some makeout shit you could use.. You have to rely on BL much more.. You need to create attraction and some comfort on the dancefloor and then my advice would be to isolate them to the outside of the club since :
1. Ure hot and want to cool down..
2. U want 2 smoke a ciggarete..
3. Any bullshit excuse..

Charles Ou · #8 (**permalink**) 02-25-2008, 02:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Hadzo

I already said that club game is different.. Especially dancefloor game.. Check JTR stuff.. JackTheRIpper, he is here on the forums.. He has some makeout shit you could use.. You have to rely on BL much more.. You need to create attraction and some comfort on the dancefloor and then my advice would be to isolate them to the outside of the club since :
1. Ure hot and want to cool down..
2. U want 2 smoke a ciggarete..
3. Any bullshit excuse..

thanks alot