If you and your gf are at a gay bar, usually guys are buying the both of you drinks, but you do wind up having a lesbian telling you "treat her good or she's going home with me".
Most of the time they wound up scamming drinks from guys that I wound up with... there would be 3 girls, one would be my gf, she'd talk to the guy, then pass him off to one of her friends, which he wasn't as interested in, but he'd still hang out because he figured he might have a chance with one of them which was prob. better than his other option, going home alone.
Sometimes I might be drinking a soda or water bottle, and she wants me to have a drink, and I'll just have her get me whatever she's drinking. I might or might not drink the whole thing, or just take a few sips and give it to her to finish... and see if she drinks from the same glass. Some will pour it into their glass or put their straw in it. Some will drink from it. To me, if she's comfortable to drink out of the same glass, it's likely she'll be comfortable kissing you, and I can say from my experience that it's been true.
Interesting tip I just read - if she's facing the bar straight on, she's closing herself off from the room and is there just to have a drink. If her body is angled or facing out, she's open season (or waiting for her bf to get back).
You also have to assess if she even has any money on her. Half the time you're meeting girls who are having guys buy them drinks because they have very little cash on them, and if they were to spend out of pocket (and pay cover in some cases), they'd never be able to go to any of these places. That's why it's good to get to know them well enough to assess if this is someone who is just being cheap by scamming drinks or is flat broke and if it wasn't for the guys, they'd be sucking on ice cubes. If you're going for someone in their 30s and 40s, they're going to have money on them. Early 20s, you see how small those purses are... don't expect much money in there. |