How to get girls to buy you drinks?

[TrueStory]

Originally Posted by RocDav

lol...gay guys try to game us just like we try to game girls.

sorry, but just cuz i get a drink doesn't mean i'm gonna swing swords with them.

hahaha does anyone ELSE see the parallel here?!

[harry_balzonia]

next time a guy goes to buy you a drink, throw up your bitch shield and toss some shit tests at him.

[RocDav]

Originally Posted by harry_balzonia

next time a guy goes to buy you a drink, throw up your bitch shield and toss some shit tests at him.

lol...gay guys always hit on me and it just gives me social proof so i've learned to just put up with it and let them know you're straight and usually they'll ask you some lame question like "How big is your dick?" then introduce you to any female friends he has and make one last attempt to stick it in your ass.

but getting back to the topic at hand, getting girls to buy drinks for you.

most girls have a rule that they won't buy drinks for guys. the best thing to do is be the exception, play a game with her, and make some kind of bet with her about what the outcome will be. i've gotten free food, drinks, and merchandise this way.

one question i ask a lot is "What color are the Oompa Loompa's in the old school Charlie and the Chocolate Factory with Gene Wilder?" For some reason most people think they are purple.

[TrueStory]

Q: How do you get girls to buy you a drink?

A: After, I built attraction, number closed her, and got some rapport, I'll say "Hey, Nicole, get me gin and tonic, and come meet me outside on the patio, I have some people I want you to meet." and walk away

And 7 out of 10, will come meet me with my drink. Occasionally, they will come out without a drink.... either way, I am in the set by then, "hey, Nicole, where is my drink?" and I'll back turn to them push them out of the set. Watch them work to get my attention.




Why does this work for me?

Because I am a high value. I am a promoter. I am sharpest dressed guy in the club. I get paid to be there. I drink for free. I have my own tab, covered by a club. Why would I want to "get" someone to buy me a drink?

I tell them.


You guys need to be moving towards that mentality. You don't "get" girls to do things for you (i.e. having sex with you, buy you drink, kiss you, etc.) you tell them to.

[Jenner]

ive had two methods work for me
one being at the bar and just seeing a random girl buy more than one drink at a time, id go, oh arent you nice, you didn't need to buy me a drink, you should've just said hi (or something similar)

second is either get them attracted to you and they'll usually get you one

[Tackleberry]

Truestory has hit it right on.

I've had girls buy me drinks on several different occasions at clubs, for different reasons.

But why did they buy me drinks ?

I came off with an extremley strong frame, which is in itself a DHV, I had already established attraction, and I was the one controlling the frame.

As Truestory said he TOLD her to get him a drink, and then told her what to do, (come outside). Giving orders in and of itself is quite powerfull, and definatly magnified after ress well, establishing attraction etc.

Also, playing games as other people have suggested is very strong as well. By playing a game and setting the prize as being bought a drink, you almost mask the fact that your only intention is a free drink. Also, just mentally it adds a fun element into your interaction. One of my fav. games to play is rocks paper siccor shoot.

When girls ask me to buy them a drink, I usually respond by challenginging them to earn it with a game of rocks paper, but if they loose there the ones buying. I'd say they play because of the challenge, but also a combination of not wanting to look cheap and the allure of a free drink. It's sad most women expect to be bought there liquor at clubs and bars, its something one should never do.


In my experience, you have to already have established some kind of attraction previously

[OdinUSMC]

When I was in college we used to use a trick similar to this on waitresses to get free drinks. It's dick, I know. But it sure is fun.

Open a girl, be very playful about it. Stand close to her and convince her to turn around and see something WHILE HOLDING YOUR NEARLY EMPTY DRINK BY HER SIDE. When she turns, bump your drink into her elbow. Blame her (I use a neg sometimes too "you have the most beastly elbows ever! Incredible hulk sized!") Now insist she replace it. She will likely feel bad and offer too. Now she has invested, been neged, looked clumsy and is semi qualifying herself to you.

Again, its a asshole move kind of. But that doesn't mean it has no place in your war bag. And it's pretty fun.

[TrueStory]

Originally Posted by OdinUSMC

When I was in college we used to use a trick similar to this on waitresses to get free drinks. It's dick, I know. But it sure is fun.

Open a girl, be very playful about it. Stand close to her and convince her to turn around and see something WHILE HOLDING YOUR NEARLY EMPTY DRINK BY HER SIDE. When she turns, bump your drink into her elbow. Blame her (I use a neg sometimes too "you have the most beastly elbows ever! Incredible hulk sized!") Now insist she replace it. She will likely feel bad and offer too. Now she has invested, been neged, looked clumsy and is semi qualifying herself to you.

Again, its a asshole move kind of. But that doesn't mean it has no place in your war bag. And it's pretty fun.

Does this shit actually work?

You gonna get some people kicked out of their favorite bars

I think with the right delivery it would work...oh shit am I making it worse?!

[OdinUSMC]

It's all in the way you play it, don't take it too seriously. If you're playful about it and it looks like her fault then yes, yes she will.
Try it.

[tastyweat]

Originally Posted by TrueStory

hahaha does anyone ELSE see the parallel here?!

totally