Now, I've been good at PU for a long time. I am not going to say that I am a modest person, because I am not, but if you've read my posts I don't tend to brag. However, I'd say that in terms of PU, for at least five years now, the level of my game would be in the top 5% in this community.
Still, that wasn't enough for me. If you read my previous post you would see that I am fundmentally opposed to using "game", in fact I find it insulting. If I am the prize, then they should fucking come to me! They should seek me out.
My goal was getting my state to a point where that happpened. I say now, without modesty, and after taking a six month break from the community, that I am at that point.
What is that state? Hopefully my point will get across in the following example, which may sound like an FR, butI put it here to illustrate what I am talking about
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Friday night, and I am in my car heading out. What's the first thing I realize? That I fucking LOVE my life. I love it because I put work into it so I could get to this place. I have amazing friends, a career that people would kill for, more money than I ever dreamed (and trust me, having been poor and homeless as a kid I dreamed big), a great family, and well damnit, I looked good.
Point 1: Love your life, or get to the point where you can. If I can go from being poor, to being an aimless drunk, to being where I am today, so can you.
Then I picked up some friends, and headed into Hollywood. It is at this point that I realized that I don't need anything but what I had right there with me. Surrounded by good friends, laughing about stupid crap and having a great time. I could have sat with all of them at a Starbucks and not once talked to a female and been fine with that.
Point 2: You do not NEED women. Enjoy your surroundings and have a good time no matter what.
We get to the venue, and because I previously connected with the
hired guns there, we all roll right in front of the line and into the club. I do not look at a single girl on the line, my eyes are connected with whomever I am talking to at that moment, because at that moment, they are the only person that matters. At this point my state is through the fucking roof. I can feel the eyes on me, and I don't give a shit if the gaze is from a SHB or some dipshit guy.
Point 3: Your attention is on what you have in front of you. Everything else can wait, it will come to you.
Once in this club, I walk up to the bar, order a drink and my interaction with the bartender is as if I've been in this place for years. I'm smile, my gaze is piercing, and I walked up to the bar as if the people there were going to move out of the way to make room as I approached. Guess what? They did.
Walking back over to my friends, I notice one of them staring down an HB9, typical Hollywood club girl. He is not in the community and is afraid to approach. So I walked right up to the SHB and her friends, introduced myself, told them it was much more comfortable where I was and brought them back with me. The moment I did, I noticed that there was 3 girls, and 3 of my friends, so I excused myself and walked off.
Point 4: Don't be selfish. No need to grab at anything that shows interest. Once again, it WILL come to you.
I walked back to the bar, sly grin on my face, confidence is oozing off me, I go to order another drink and what happens? I feel my arm get tugged and it is an HB9 (another typical Hollywood club girl) who says, "Dance with me." I reply with, "Drink with me." She does.
It comes to you.
This state happens when you are truly in love with your life. And when it happens, you can wave goodbye to game, and watch how you become the magnet, instead of the metal.
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Bringing "State" to a new Level 
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