business lunch game

[Soho Soho]

I have a lunch this week with a hot sales woman (im a sales man too). Its meant tobe a networking type thing, exhange leads etc, friednly. It will probably last at least 1 hour. Im sure we will talk normal stuff like sales, where do you live, where is your family. etc.

I want to start the conversation with tons of charm rigfht off the gates
So obviously here, I dont need an opnener to meet her, I already know her

Any ideas?

Also, our profesional circle is small so I cant be a dog and we both have boy friend.g friend etc

Because we both are not tied to the office, i would love to arouse her and fuck her somewhere

[jsaligeri]

Geez. Cramming for an exam you didn't study for huh?

a) Go get and Read Magic Bullets.
b) Do Forum search and read Best of the Forum
c) Read Jive Turkey so that you learn what not to do
d) Read Magic Bullets again.

I hate to break this to you but i would love to arouse her and fuck her somewhere aint going to happen over one lunch. Even with all your charm.

You need to reframe her mind which will not be exactly easy for you to do given the amount of time and the venue and lack of experience.

Avoid the where you are from, background question.

DHV yourself.

Follow up with making plans for a happy hour where she can see you are Alpha and DHV again at happy hour, and this is where you apply what you learn from Magic Bullets.

Unless you have a strong frame of mind, she is having nothing more than a business lunch with you and she is expecting that. If you try anything else, she may find you creepy and you will never recover. So I repeat, Get Magic Bullets, DHV yourself during lunch, not too obvious, be C&F, and make plans for a happy hour or something else. Don't talk about personal stuff, if she brings up the BF, ignore her comments and keep talking.

And last but not least, you are over 35, change your tonality. The vernacular you chose is that of a high-schooler.

Hope this helps somewhat

Roberto

This is the definitive work on pickup and dating theory, written by an acknowledged master of the game - a guy who’s TRAINED many of the new “gurus” on the scene!

[Soho Soho]

thanks for the bitchy help

wasnt asking for a script.

[DeadEyeDick]

Originally Posted by Soho Soho

thanks for the bitchy help

wasnt asking for a script.

Well, you were asking for game on a silver platter, delivered by a butler.

My sense is you're treating this like it's your last chance to see this chick. If you bowl her over with "tons of charm," I'm thinking she's thinking you're trying WAY too hard.

It's a business lunch. I'd chill, relax and see how she acts. Use your sales skills to read her body language, and if it all looks good, just get her number for the purpose of chatting again sometime.

Your instinct is to take it fast. You don't need to "close" this one special girl over lunch, duder.

The advice you got from jsaligeri is to take it s-l-o-w.

I agree with him.

[Soho Soho]

thank you

I already know her and have her number. I guess I need to wait until I master better inner and outer game

[harry_balzonia]

why not start off with an opinion opener and run normal game from there. Just be like "Before we start, I need a quick females opinion on something..." or something along thos lines

[Soho Soho]

great suggestion, I will try that. simple

[silversixone]

Do the opposite of what you think you should to get into her pants. That will be the opposite of what every other guy does when he meets her, and you'll stand out.


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