When a girl fakes it. - The Attraction Forums

Tommen · #1 08-24-2008, 10:45 AM

I recently obtained a FB... sweet! The only problem is that she fakes orgasms all the time and its a big turnoff for me. (Im confident I can spot an orgasm when I see/hear it, and allso she has like four of "them" during one intercourse, consistantly... and honestly.. Im not that good)

My educated guess is that she has'nt had a real orgasm yet, and just does'nt know. This unfortunately makes the experience real to her.
Wich again makes it realy hard for me to confront her with it, at least in any way wich would make her feel inexperienced.

Any ideas?

So far Iv been thinking Im going to have to finger her to an orgasm with out her feeling that she has to come or that she is taking too long. But that could be realy hard, considering she is probably going to throw me a fake one before she climaxes.

Help!

KennyBaby · #2 08-24-2008, 10:54 AM

Yeah.. I feel like fake orgasms hurt self esteem more than no orgasms.. anyway, you have to work with her... spend a LONG time kissing and stuff, and a LONG time with your toungue and fingers... don't give her any choice but to have an orgasm. Also, it might be worth it to talk to her about it, and find out if she's EVER had one... a vibrator might be a last resort, but in my experience they work GREAT and can be fun to use together

Tommen · #3 08-24-2008, 10:58 AM

hmm, but dont you think that by asking her if shes ever had an orgasm Im calling her a liar?

I mean, she thinks she is fooling me. She even talks about the "orgasms" shes had with me, with me.

Benkei · #4 08-24-2008, 11:22 AM

And when she talks about them, what does she say?
You could try to trick her by saying something like, her orgasms are different from ones you've experienced with other girls, try and get the point accross that you're calling her bluff, without actually calling it... If you get what I mean. She may confess that she's faking. But you HAVE to reasure her it's ok, and it's no big deal. Ask her what she likes and go with that. If she's never had one before, how good would it be to finally have one? And not only that, but YOU being the guy to give her one?

Tommen · #5 08-24-2008, 01:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Benkei

And when she talks about them, what does she say?

When she talks about them its usaly when we are in bed, after having sex. And she says something like "That sex was sweet, I came x number of times" or we can be going at it and she just had had "a few" and she will be like "you better come soon I can't take another orgasm". Tho the latter only happened once and she sucked me off after, she has made remarks about how it drains her, even tho she is ready to go 15 min later.
-generaly thats the jest of how and when she talks abot them

But I realy liked the "her orgasms are different", nice one

I might just use that.

Any other ideas or viewpoints?

FDW · #6 08-25-2008, 03:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Tommen

When she talks about them its usaly when we are in bed, after having sex. And she says something like "That sex was sweet, I came x number of times" or we can be going at it and she just had had "a few" and she will be like "you better come soon I can't take another orgasm". Tho the latter only happened once and she sucked me off after, she has made remarks about how it drains her, even tho she is ready to go 15 min later.
-generaly thats the jest of how and when she talks abot them

But I realy liked the "her orgasms are different", nice one

I might just use that.

Any other ideas or viewpoints?

Some girls cum REALLY easily. Are you absolutely sure she's faking it?

I had an FB that would get on top and cum in 30 seconds, it was great, there was never any pressure to perform cuz I could be lazy as ||||, practically asleep and know she'd enjoy herself anyway lol

retired_young · #7 08-25-2008, 04:38 PM

And some girls it's just really hard to tell. They don't all scream and moan.

Following on what FDW says about having her on top, try that and let her do all the work...you just work on staying firm. But let her provide all the motion because she'll do what's best for her. If she "orgasms" while she's doing all the work, it's probably real.

Benkei · #8 08-26-2008, 02:02 PM

Some good ideas on here. Try some out and see what the situation is. I've heard of girls who are really hard to get to orgasm, but never ones that cum so easily!?

Nikeforged · #9 08-26-2008, 04:17 PM

I've been with a girl that got off 3 times in short time. It was soo easy to get her off it was ridicules. I've been with more than a couple women in my life but I only met one like that. It did wonders for my confident because I felt like a sex god having her get off again and again without much effort on my part. Maybe she's like that girl....

sdnightfly · #10 08-26-2008, 11:40 PM

I wouldn't say anything, she's assuming it's turning you on. Maybe it's not fake, maybe it is.

One way I've found was if they are okay with them "taking care of business" in front of you and just watching their reaction and body movement, you really not doing much. The orgasms I saw them do on themselves were consistent with when I would do things to them... the vagina would get softer and wetter, and when they had an orgasm the back would arch up and down a couple of times, nothing loud, their skin would get goose bumps, then they'd lie there for a little bit. They, because it was more than one, and there was one that was not the easiest person to get off, but over time I learned.

Some girls can't have orgasms for one reason or other, so you just have to make the best out of who you're with and try to overlook it.