What to do when she hangs up on you

[pinky]

What would you guys do if your girlfriend intentionally hung up on you while talking on the phone and you didn't say or do anything wrong?

Should you call her or text her right back and tell her how rude she just was.

Should you ignore it and do a freeze out?

Or, should you break up with her right then?

What's the best way to handle this situation?

[dhies]

I usually just do the freeze out and not contact her AT ALL till she contacts me.

Worked like a charm when I did.

Of course, every woman is different. I'd say judge it yourself on what you know about her. What does she best respond to?

[masterH]

yep I usually got mad at her and tried to call again.

But I know now that it's better off to just leaver her alone

[Playplush]

Why would a girl do that suddenly if you didn't say anything wrong?

[jiggatycoon]

Originally Posted by Playplush

Why would a girl do that suddenly if you didn't say anything wrong?

seriously?

[pinky]

Originally Posted by Playplush

Why would a girl do that suddenly if you didn't say anything wrong?

I just learned today that her mom said she had to go to bed and took the phone from her. I know it sounds funny because she is 20 years old now, but I don't really mind that her mom has a big influence on her.

But say it happened differently, such as if we got into an argument about something and then she hung up. I'd like to know what would be the best way to handle it then. Or, would it depend on what the argument was about and who was right?

I'm thinking the freeze out would work best, but I usually get really angry and its hard to resist calling her out on it.

[masterH]

I am sorry to say this but man... you are so sensitive (?)

she just hung up on you (didn't say motha blah blah )
and you posted this cuz you thought it was really serious to ask??


If you take things that seriously with her, you will drive her nuts
(oh she flaked out on me WTF?, oh she didn't return my call WTF?)

Originally Posted by pinky

I just learned today that her mom said she had to go to bed and took the phone from her. I know it sounds funny because she is 20 years old now, but I don't really mind that her mom has a big influence on her.

But say it happened differently, such as if we got into an argument about something and then she hung up. I'd like to know what would be the best way to handle it then. Or, would it depend on what the argument was about and who was right?

I'm thinking the freeze out would work best, but I usually get really angry and its hard to resist calling her out on it.

[Sol_Invictus]

This is run-of-the-mill stuff in relationships. I've done it to women and they've done it to me. The worst things to do would be to get mad or whiney. Just go and do the things that you would have done had this event not happened.

Remember that your two worst enemies are insecurity and neediness.

[Rab07]

next time your on the phone to her and your getting to the end of the conversation say to her "hey xxxx whose good looking and hangs up" and then hang up on her.

My mates whose a natural taught me that one and i've yet to say it to a girl who hasn't loved it and text me immediately after or commented on it next time i saw or spoke to them.

[dhies]

Originally Posted by Rab07

next time your on the phone to her and your getting to the end of the conversation say to her "hey xxxx whose good looking and hangs up" and then hang up on her.

My mates whose a natural taught me that one and i've yet to say it to a girl who hasn't loved it and text me immediately after or commented on it next time i saw or spoke to them.

I like that one! Mind if I use it and tweak it a bit?