last call

[fenomen]

Hi guys. I made n-close and set up a date with the girl. The problem is that I called her Monday and the date will be Friday. Should I call her again to remind her? I think if i call again she will start thinking oh he is insecure... and could flake.
Give me advice. Thank you.

[Big_P]

Na I definately wouldn't call again. You want her to think you make plans and keep them right?? At most a text on thurs. I sometimes text the night before and tell her what to wear.

eg. "8pm tomo, sharp. The dress is casual, so wear some nice jeans and a cool top. See ya then"

Cheers

[fenomen]

Thank you! But should I go if she doesn't answer to this text?

[Big_P]

If she doesn't text back, it's probable she wont show. You can proberbly judge the chances of this by how keen she sounded on the phone. You could go anyway, but have a backup plan just in case she doesn't.

If a girl does a no show give the impression it didn't bother you. I usually say something along the lines of "sorry got called back into work... hope you wern't waiting to long" or "something came up, not trying to avoid you tho "

Cheers

[Braddock]

Originally Posted by fenomen

Thank you! But should I go if she doesn't answer to this text?

I would text her something like this Wed or Thurs


Braddock: "Excited about Friday....Will you be sending a normal limo or a hummer limo?!?!? P.S. I'm allergic to chocolate so just stick to the Krystal and expensive jewelry. "

Don't go if she doesn't reply...


-Braddock

[fenomen]

I send Braddock's suggestion and she reply. I was 100% sure that she will come. The date was at 9 and at 7 o'clock I recieved the message "we have to put off.sorry so much"
I answered "oh i think that you were mature.no problem i will come out with another "
Now what?To call her anymore?

[MAG!C]

OUCH!
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Not enough comfort.
Guys do it all the time, and get flakes.

They go, meet a girl, chop her, set a date, leave her.

And expect her to be all happy about it.
You expect her to fall in love with you in a matter of 5 minutes and then go on a date with you after 4 days of no calling? ... I mean sure, some guys can pull it off.

Go back to the basics man

You meet her, you get into comfort, you get her number, you stay for a few more minutes to seem that its not a chop.

[Big_P]

Since she didn't offer a reschedule, it doesn't look like she's interested. Hard luck mate. Move on to some other girls. Delete her number. If you hear from her again, ask "whos this?"