Did I neg too much here? (new to this online stuff) - The Attraction Forums

Trixx · #1 08-20-2008, 07:37 AM

Hey guys, Im totally new to the online scene and although I have decent success in the regular field, I seem to be struggling a bit here.. I wanna throw out a convo here and let me know what I did wrong...

a little background on her profile..
She made herself out to be some succesful business chick, she said she had thr world by th eballs and knows exactly what she wnats in life, she works in real estate with corporate buildings. She seemed a little bitchy and stuck up but she was HOT so I thought I practice some game.

If you could critique the open and where i went wrong that would be awesome

Me (opener):Shame, I was gonna ask for advice on this treehouse I was looking into buying, guess I'm gonna have to look elsewhere, plus you seem a little too professional and business-lady like to help me out on the purchase.

Her:yup totally but just so you know i did take law and can do closings haha maybe you shouldnt judge before u speak with someone or else they would wanna help u out other then that have fun hahaha

Me: oh ok, so when i'm ready to close I will give you a call and you can help me out, if I didnt already ruin that by 'judging' you your profile makes you seem like you got everything all figured out, just trying to find out what you do for fun when your not workin.

Her:lol hmm u wish i dont help people who judge when not even talking to the person have fun with ur buying hope u get a good one bye

Me:I hope thats a joke, just figured you'd be able to have a little fun and joke around but you seem to be takin this to heart a little, well have fun closin ur deals.

Thanks Guys

Aha · #2 08-20-2008, 04:16 PM

Where is the neg? You shouldn't even neg online.

Trixx · #3 08-20-2008, 04:39 PM

ya i understand im not supposed to neg but thats kinda my point.. i dont see where this went wrong.. did i come off to much of an ass? i mean clearly she was offended cause she said BYE and even thouhgh i responded i got nothing back.. i just think i went wrong somewhere.. maybe not.

The Therapist · #4 08-20-2008, 04:41 PM

Yeah, I didn't see the neg either. I saw a weak opener that she took as an internet guy hitting on her.

Trixx · #5 08-20-2008, 05:05 PM

ya my online game openers are weeaakkkk.. working on finding some new ones. Thats one of my main problems.

TheMedic · #6 08-20-2008, 05:56 PM

Just go with the Are you wearing a wig... or is that your real hair? opener. It works most of the time, and it's been field tested to death.

chill84 · #7 08-20-2008, 06:00 PM

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Originally Posted by TheMedic

Just go with the Are you wearing a wig... or is that your real hair? opener. It works most of the time, and it's been field tested to death.

ignore this man, and search the forums instead.

TheMedic · #8 08-20-2008, 06:21 PM

Ah, true true, go search.

TrueStory · #9 08-20-2008, 06:31 PM

Search for negs on this forums. You didn't really neg, you insulted her.
You can recover (you really have nothing to lose) and say, "hey, chill I was being playful, sometimes hard to tell online"

I try to put "

"'s and "

"' or ":-p"'s in my messages to demonstrate playful banter. Or couple lols will do

flyboy352 · #10 08-20-2008, 09:16 PM

Yeah man, read the threads on here, read the stickies.

You opened with a what came off as a pretty weak attempt to sound different then the "regular" guys. She threw a bitch shield up and you didnt manage to break it...she said bye and honestly that last bit came off as "oh please dont leave me."

First...its myspace...who cares what anyone says back to you lol. Myspace is great when your not available to go out but shouldn't be used strictly. Plus, depending on your area there should be TONS of HB7+ women to choose from. Anyway, youll get better...we all started somewhere, you look like a master compared to my old stuff lol.