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Old 08-19-2008, 12:53 AM
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Last week I opened about 15 daygame sets for 4 days in a row. When I think about something of what I did could have been better. I could have showed more enthusiasm on my openers. It was like I stopped caring about the targets. Moreover, I shouldn't have transitioned after a direct opener. However, it was still pretty hard for me to stop sets, most of them seem to really be in a hurry. T o ensure that a number aint a flake one should have a minimum 20 minute conversation together. It's so hard to get that time in daygame.
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You almost never have 20 minutes to get the number. Or it means you make her change her plans.

In the opening, put a time constraint. After opening, I'd suggest to transition on high impact shit. And when you feel her interest, get the number and go. It is always better to be the one interupting the discussion (DHV implying you have important things to do or people to meet).

Anyway, congratulations for opening 15 sets a day. It's the perfect way to get experience.
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...most of them seem to really be in a hurry...
False Time Constraints are your friend.

Number close very early.

Continue your conversation on the phone or via text.
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Last week I opened about 15 daygame sets for 4 days in a row. When I think about something of what I did could have been better. I could have showed more enthusiasm on my openers. It was like I stopped caring about the targets. Moreover, I shouldn't have transitioned after a direct opener. However, it was still pretty hard for me to stop sets, most of them seem to really be in a hurry. T o ensure that a number aint a flake one should have a minimum 20 minute conversation together. It's so hard to get that time in daygame.
I am having the same problem. Seated sets during daytime are pretty easy, and they respond really well, but the moving ones are hard, especially if you try going indirect.
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I'm always using the false time constraints though. Would it be smart to approach the sets that doesn't walk that fast down the street? Since they obviously has more time. Moreover, what about approaching chicks in clothing and shoe stores? Since their there alone (most of the time) they probably have some time.
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I'm always using the false time constraints though.
Huh. What openers are you using?
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I'm always using the false time constraints though. Would it be smart to approach the sets that doesn't walk that fast down the street? Since they obviously has more time. Moreover, what about approaching chicks in clothing and shoe stores? Since their there alone (most of the time) they probably have some time.
I haven't tried it. If you do, most likely you have to use an opener related to shopping I think.
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I am having the same problem. Seated sets during daytime are pretty easy, and they respond really well, but the moving ones are hard, especially if you try going indirect.
Have you not read my Day Walking article?? Mate, all the info you need is in there... It's here Day Walking: The Differences between Day and Night Game

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Have you not read my Day Walking article?? Mate, all the info you need is in there... It's here Day Walking: The Differences between Day and Night Game

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I have and its great. The thing is I am not really comfortable going direct yet (I've just started doing some approaches). But I guess part of the learning is to do things outside of your comfort zone.
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Huh. What openers are you using?
I'm usually using these ones:

Excuse me, I saw you walking down the street and I liked the sexy feminine way you walked on. I remember I was in London and all the girls there walked like elephants.

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Excuse me, I saw you walking down the street and I just had to tell you that you've got a cute smile.
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