Her Reply:
why wouldnt i rely on sports
badboy?
Reply.
Her another short reply
i thought u had to go liarr!!!!!!
Me after getting from tea
i did go i went and cooked tea, i had taco's
and oh my god you are already calling me a lier, we are'nt going to get a long are we? sometimes when i close the site down i don't actually sign out and maybe it keeps me logged on for a little bit.
Well the reason i'm giving the speach is because i hurt my knee when i used to play b-ball and i was going to rely on my sport for my future, but got hurt and, basically i just have to tell them, that it's ok to persue a career in sport but it's just as important to have a backup plan just incase you hurt yourself like i have.
You know i was sooo totally going to ask you out, but since your a blonde i'm not so sure i want to, but hey we can still be friends and hang out now can't we? Actually i'll tell you what, i give you 2 brownie points because you're so adorable, your like my bratty little sister. But if you want to prove me wrong, then you have to reply to me with a funny, storey to tell or a joke, or even a trick
, i'll give you 2more points if you can come up with something?.
and whats your name? I knew you'd like the
badboy heading
i have a couple more which i thought you'd like to but thought the
badboy one would work
.
Yeah there was WAY too much qualifying going on here. I know it can be hard not to qualify to a ten or nine or whatever but you GOTTA watch that..this qualifying gave her grounds to throw all sorts of bullshit at your face later on in the interaction bc wen you qualify you set the dynamic that SHE has more value that YOU..and why the fuck would she want to be with someone of LESSER value..you gotta come in with MORE value and disinterest.basic shit.
Her Reply
i think i only would see you as a friend thats all
her seeing herself as having more value than you, where she can put you in the friends zone.came from qualifying. if you had remained a lil mysterious and subtle with your dhv then she would not have known AT ALL your value which i think would've intrigued her a lil bc women love social enigmas..
My Reply
Thats cool maybe we can go out sometime and play a game of pool, and i'll kick your butt, unless of course your a pro at it lol, what was your name and number and maybe we can have a few laughs over the phone.
bye for now Gabbo.
you accepted her frame here what you shoulda done is said something a lil cocky or playful..with online shit you never wanna be too serious may'be like "how would i date you as my lil sis..weirdo/dork ;p"
Her Reply
hmm how about you take me out to dinner? (shit test)
My Reply
haha your a funny one. YOu just want me to take you out to dinner and seduce me don't you? well i'm not that easy.
So tell me other then your looks, what else do you have
going for you?, i know it's not your creativity! because you did'nt reply back with a Joke,funny storey or a trick.
So other then looks what else do you have?
Your
Badboy.
YOUR
badboy?? she owns you wtf??!
no.
also i've learned not to really sign the messages. i think it shows eagerness to try and like gain rapport with them..and the guy above was right if they are giving you shit early you dont want to give them big qualifier hoops quite yet. something i like tht works: If you had no pics what do you think would be like three things you'd put in your profile to get guys to message you, or if shes shown ioi then be like tell me like three things about yourself that'll show me your as cool as i think.. or small hoops like you look polish or russian ha whats your nationality.you get the drift. start small work up.
Her Reply
hmm alot but i dont see much going for u ... what else do u do except spend your nights at home searching for girls?
Reply
Her Reply another quick one b4 i went to bed
ok il admit it ur kind of cool ( kind of)
ya would be good to meet up mwa xox
My Reply
haha and just for that little kiss i'll give and extra point
, but yet, you still have'nt told me anything about you, so i'm not to sure if your worthy of that extra point, or even worth meeting yet? Have you met any cool guys off the net yet?.
Also have you ever played a game called the cube b4?
this was good except for the part about the cube. that is her reward for being nice.if she responeded well to the message or qualified THEN you shoulda intro'd the cube.
basically..TOO much qualifying when she hasnt given you ANYTHING BUT LOOKS to go on..and WAY too many iois given by you. don't be eager if they are on the site(as long as its not myspace) then obviously things cant be going that well and they need SOMETHING from guys..you YOU'VE got that something that they need. so come from the frame that you don't care or rely on this to interact with girls.
and lastly..
if they EVER send you a short message then YOU SEND THEM A SHORT MESSAGE BACK!!
repling with overly thought out messages shows desperation and that they are coming from a position of power OVER you..its just like the classic formula: an iod equals a returned iod then a dhv. a short message for a short message and in that short message try to show you don't care(dhv) or if it fits..throw in a dhv
hmm..with this though..i think if you can chill with the iois and qualifying and just ask her if she gets texts LATER on in your interaction online(like three more chill messages) and when u ask just mention that your busy/dont have time/whatever and that you dont come on the site often.then if she gives u the number then just game her with better
frame control over the texting.set up a meeting over text. then call for however long u feel like.be alpha in the meet up. once she shows iois in the meet up then
kino..blah blah..you know the rest
good luck!
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MY first little shit test from HB10 
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